[Ask a Girl] Too much oral?

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  1. Gonzo519

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    I love giving my girlfriend oral, and she seems to like it, but I often wonder if she is always completely honest with me with regard to sex. I'm not sure she would ever tell me if she didn't like something. I always give her oral before actual intercourse. I have no problem always doing that, because I really do love it.... but can a woman receive too much oral? Does it get boring? Should I try to abstain from it once and a while to increase the anticipation? I would really like the ladies' feedback.
     
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    I used to think the same thing. Just do different things. Don't always just do the same ol thing.
     
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    to answer you questions first, for me, no couldn't get too much, does it get very sensitive after a while yes, but never too much. Not really boring at all especially if you change how you do it wether it be position or technique. Building anticipation is great, but, don't wait days and days where she forgets about it lol I would like to have it everyday if I could. Also try fucking her first and getting her going. Loosen her up a little bit then finger fuck her while eating her. That's amazing
     
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    Omg. You're giving her WAY too much oral. Stop that, now.

    lol. Seriously though, it's only too much oral if you want to do it every second of the day and it interferes with both your daily lives. It doesn't sound like that's the case. Giving her oral every time the two of you have sex sounds perfectly fine to me.
     
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    Okay... I'll admit my question may seem strange, but I was married 23 years to a woman who would not let me go down on her, so being with somebody who likes it is somewhat new to me.
     
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    Wow, that is horrible. :(

    I would be so disappointed to be in a relationship like that, and I would definitely be sexually unhappy. I'm glad you found your current relationship.
     
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    Me too! I had no idea sex could be this amazing. I feel like a 46 year old virgin just discovering his sexuality.
     
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    well just keep it new. Everytime you do it try something new soon you'll be a pro
     
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    That's why I joined this forum... for ideas. I can only imagine so many possibilities before I run out of ideas
     
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    lol well anything u need we are here to help. Its why I joined as well
     
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    I dont think too much oral would be a problem as long as you both communicate with each other. If you're running out of ideas ask her what she might like you to try. Get her to show you what she likes too.
    There is nothing sexier than a man who is attentive to you physically and mentally.
     
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    Noted :lol
     
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    seeing as you have a photographic memory i shall look forward to the pop quiz tomorrow ;-)
     
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    Noted :lol


    You promised another night in :mad
     
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    Yes and thanks for sharing I second that!


     
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    you know i'll make it worth your while though G :p
     
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    Awe heck go get some vibes, hand cuffs and a blindfold, some whipping..... cream and have a freakin party on her, moan and groan dirty talk her and go crazywild! have fun