[Ask a Girl] Too much of a good thing?

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  1. philphilphil1989

    philphilphil1989 New Member

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    I usually don't get any complains but I recently was told for the first time ever that my cock is "scary" because "its too big".
    Was just wondering what the general opinion is on how big is too big? :)

    Just for the record, Length: 8.5inch. Girth: 6inch.

    Looking forward to peoples answers xx
     
  2. xeniadraven

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    I dont think theres an overall answer for that tbh. Each woman will have her own limits. I think the right fit is the most important thing of all and that will be different for everyone.
    i wouldnt say you're scary big at all but thats only my opinion xx
     
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    for my gf u would be at her max vaginally....

    however....she could make you ....and a half of another guy disappear down her throat tho. (she can handle about 10" at the present time.)...and she would looove to do it to ya....lol.

    and i'm sure you'll her from her soon...:lol
     
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    Thanks for the input guys :) x
     
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    Women are all different sizes in vajay length. All women vary in deepness. And you never hear the media selling viagra pills to women "increase the size of your vagina!" But in all, it depends on how long she is. A woman who can only fit 6 inches in length might be concerned about 8 inches long.

    This means that people are puzzle pieces. You have to find the right person to fit. :D
     
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    I'm about 7" long but thicker at 6.5" and only had a few women tell me that I was too big. In one case I managed to relax her and we had good sex, and at the other extreme we started but she was too tense for us to go any further.

    If you think about it length isn't a huge problem because you don't have to go fully deep, and anyone who is longer than average never goes fully deep at first anyway. You feel your way through when and how deep you can go.

    Thickness is more of an issue, because while I know that any woman can take my size, if they're not thinking straight then they will be tense and it's going to be unpleasant for both of us. But I think being scared of a large penis is rather rare, and I've had many more women look forward to what was about to happen.
     
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    I'm 8.5" by 6.5" and was too big for my first 2 attempts at sex as a teenager but luckily after those I was taught by a much older woman what it was all about.

    The first thing she taught me was preparation, preparation, preparation - get rid of any tensions and fears and not only get your partner ready but eager.

    The next was restraint and consideration.

    The next was position - Basic missionary for the first few times, until they know that they can 'take' it and enjoy it. It is surprising how soon even the most initially doubtful are willing to try deeper positions.

    The uterus has 2 extensions - the fornix - which will allow it to 'take' any length (at the right angle) without hitting the cervix. Hitting this can be painful but some women do like it being 'rubbed' against.

    I have been initially met with surprise, shock and yes, a few times fear but following my teaching I have never had a 'refusal'.
    Some more 'mature' and 'experience' women have not only being curious as to "how it will feel" but have seen 'taking' it as some form of challenge.
     
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    I should have mentioned that missionary is a looser position so it's better to start with missionary when you have a thicker penis. It also gives us men a chance to control depth when length may be a problem. You can change to other postions later.
     
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    I know how to use it haha was just curious about a womans opinion on size really.
    Thanks for the advice anyway though xD
     
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    most women will handle it with no problem.
     
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    most women that "want" to handle it, will be able to....but my ex never did get used to me, and i'm not near as big as phil...she was very tight and just didnt care to work on it together so we did "other things"...lots of oral and hand play...we probably didnt have intercourse 100 times in 30 years because of it...now my gf thinks i'm her perfect fit , and we go at each other 7 or 8 times a week :woohoo....just depends on the girl i guess...
     
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  13. cbrmale

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    That's my understanding of how it works after seeing some MRIs of couples having sex. You don't hit the cervix, so if you're longer and the woman is fully aroused and her vagina is tented, there won't be too many problems, unless you're long enough to stretch the end of the vagina a long way.

    What I find with my thickness is, obviously, a lot of arousal before penetration. Yesterday afternoon I had trouble coming for some reason, and in the end it took about twenty minutes to half an hour. Quite literally we couldn't have gone any longer because we were both getting sore, and I don't think average thickness men have that limitation. About 15 minutes is the comfortable maximum, although I believe that it's a more enjoyable 15 minutes than with average.

    My take on size is that it's good before penetration. It's nice to look at, nice to hold, nice to try oral sex on (and fail). It's appealing, the way a nice body is appealing. I've seen that with enough different women to know.
     
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    Its not the size of the cock that does the magic.. its what you do with it :)
    Oh and other body parts too :)
     
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    My girlfriend says that women who say this are either lying, or haven't yet experienced a good, thick size. And she's not the only one who told me this.
     
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    yeah, i got the same response from mine...damn cockhound she is...:D