Too Late......

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  1. SexyScorp

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    Too Late..

    A moral tale :

    A young man met an older woman...they shortly thereafter became friends and a little more. The young one pursued her quite passionately and she fell for his charms and admired his intellect...they had much in common. It seemed of little significance that they lived over 3000 miles apart.

    They communicated frequently and their encounters were often infused with
    passion and intensity...she sacrificed sleep and more to talk with him. She
    was there for him, whenever he was in need. Both of them realised that this was no "normal friendship"....it was bonded by something much stronger.

    One day the young man realised the connection was becoming a little too
    intense for him and he told the woman they needed to change the energy
    around the relationship

    She was hesitant as she had become used to this passion in her life to
    which she had foolishly become somewhat dependant..

    He had his way and gradually and with reluctance, she started to detach a
    little from him....

    This was quite a rocky road for both of them...she yearned for him often
    and despaired at the prospects of them ever meeting.

    She realised he needed to go and meet someone in the flesh and he urged her to do the same quite often.........although she did say to him that this may backfire on him...he seemed confident all would be well?

    ...she had a feeling of the outcome.......

    The young man knew how much the woman cared for him, and in his youthful naivety sometimes became a little outspoken about other women he met, at times going into detail about how much he would like to "have them" etc. He appeared to be oblivious to the woman's hurt.

    The older woman knew she had to let him go...

    Time went by....

    The older woman detached from the young man...he didnt have the means(?) or enthusiasm to contact her, so she started to close down her wounded heart to him...it was exhausting being the initiator all the time...and she decided no longer could this continue.


    One day she was at the local music session and could feel someone behind her...so strong was the energy she was almost frozen to her seat...

    Feeling curious, after she had finished her song, she got up to go to the
    bathroom.

    And there he was..........he she had dreamed of for so long.....tall, long
    black wavy hair, piercing dark blue eyes, but most of all she noticed the
    smile that danced around his lips...............when he looked upon her, it
    was as though he knew her.

    One year later the young man wrote claiming his undying love for her and telling her "i am coming across the sea to Eire" as his attempts to find another to love him with so much passion and intensity, had failed.

    She writes back and tells him "sorry you are one year too late"

    * * * *

    Moral of the tale:

    Do not take advantage of true love and friendship...
     
  2. Barbwire

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    I can relate, boy, can I relate! Hugs to you, hon.
     
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    I know you can girl

    ....and thanks.....:(
     
  4. Kronnie

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    Im sorry Scorp if this is about you and the guy you have been corrisponding with for a long time :(
    Sometimes sadly with a lot of us, we never truely see what we missed until it is gone.

    And some times we push so hard because of a need to have, that we end up pushing the one we want so much away.

    It is ( not meaning in this case ) that men and women will often think in different ways , a female with in days will be thinking possible marrage children...and for 20 years or more for the future...a guy is trying to build a relationship, and not rush straight in blindfolded...

    But again Scorp and CL im sorry things didnt work the way you both wanted them to :(
     
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    I am sorry too K...

    ...but not as sorry as he will
    be one day....

    silly man...

    Thanks K :)
     
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    *lets out a sigh* a tale told from my own heart, what you just told me happend to me and yes he was a year too late well 11 months and three days to be precise.....i never can and dont think i will ever forget about him tho , but my heart is at rest with him now so im happy now moved on but still give him e athought every now and then xx:) thank you for posting this
     
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    Oh sorry to hear that girl :(

    and you are welcome
     
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    Seems many of us guys and glas , have brken hearts and spolied and ruined hearts. :(
     
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    My heart isnt broken it just holds a lil love for certain ppl, it hasnt been spoilt so much ....yet lol and i think im doing ok now so a once ruined heart has been mended ...i just wish it was teh same for everybody else who has gone thru somthng like that x
     
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    That we do Kronnie...... That we do... *hugs*
     
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    (((hugs))) back at you man...

    thanks xxx