Hello... this is somewhat awkward for me but as I seem to be out of my league here I figured asking others could not hurt. My boyfriend (who I am deeply in love with) and I lost our collective virginity three nights ago. Everything was well and good, only, he didn't orgasm. We had to stop because we needed to get home, but we spent quite a while going at it but nothing. He said that it felt good and he wasn't nervous, but still... Then again two nights ago, we tried many many different positions and we went two hours before again, we needed to leave for a party. He still didn't orgasm. When I gave him head, I went down on him for about a half an hour before I got too tired to keep going and he stopped me because he felt bad. He says it's nothing I'm doing or not doing and that he takes a long time to climax when he masturbates as well, but it's frustrating for me! Are there any suggestions or tips that may help us? Someone suggested that he refrain from pleasuring himself until the next time we are together and he has decided to try that... builds anticipation, I guess... but it just seems like torture to me. I really want to please him since he is so good to me and I love him, but it's frustrating. Help?! please?!