[Ask a Girl] Too big or too small?

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  1. LongwoodU

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    Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who was too big or too small for you to cum or enjoy the sex?
     
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    I don't want to say it was size alone but yes.
    Some women don't cum from penetration.
     
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    I know you asked for a women's response but I have had two girls tell me they wish i was bigger.
     
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    If it bothers you/you want to please them.... Get a toy for their clit/play with their clits.
     
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    Nope it's not about the size.
     
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    I know typically.... just curious if anyone went home with a guy who was like a horse and too big to fit comfortably or a guy too small to feel much sensation.
     
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    Then the answer is nope! I have never been with a guy who's size was a issue.
     
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    Been with a guy who was quite large, but in the end (no, I didn't mean that) it worked out fine. Just took a while and some extra lub. And it was fun in the process!
     
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    I do what ever I can to please but none the less no man wants to hear theyre to small.
     
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    Agreed
     
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    I've been with men who were smaller than I prefer, but I never lacked orgasms because of it. (Funny story, fingers and tongues work wonders.) It was never an issue and was never something I mentioned or would feel the need to mention. I may have preferences, but I don't have requirements... at least with respect to dick size.
     
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    I work well with just my fingers and tongue...
     
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    There is always anal sex, oral, fingering...
     
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    And no man should be told such a thing. It's rude.
     
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    My cock is average or smaller than. not sure what the standard is. it has served me well and at certain times when it has not been cooperative or perhaps it decides to cum before my partner i always knew what to do to make my lover feel complete. the sensitivity of the tounge tip can be a real asset when pleasing a lady i have found and is my organ or choice most often for mutual pleasure.
     
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    I can't say size has ever been an issue for me. Then again, I had only been with a couple guys before my husband and they all were around the same. Hubs has a bit more as far as girth goes though.
     
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    Once. Many many years ago after I broke up with a bf who was pretty big, not too big but gargantuan compared to the next guy. I honestly couldnt even feel it when he was inside...I didnt even know he was in until he started thrusting, so I assumed it was...that may be because I was used to a larger one though, dunno. Anyway he wasnt good at anything else sexually either so it was pretty terrible all around, lol. I also gave a bj to a guy who I discovered was really tiny. Im not gonna lie, I enjoy a decently large, thick cock; that being said, now that Im older I have much more appreciation for a man's other skills as well so it's definitely not a deal breaker or anything.
     
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    *whew (saved by my other skills. LOL)
     
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    My dick ain't small; it's just that some pussies are large ;)
     
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    Joking aside, folks need to find a compatible partner in terms of physical, emotional and libido.
    That is actually not that easy to achieve hence the high rates of divorces.
    Try and test drive to the limit before you buy!