Today is the day...

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  1. Sexual Person

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    That I lost my virginity last year...

    It really wasn't the best day of my life and every time I think of it it, it makes me really sad. We went and stayed at a hotel that night and all he wanted to do when we got there was get right into my pants, but of course I let him do it because, I really loved him a lot and would do anything for him. I was pretty sick too. Later in the night I threw up and had diarrhea, but I started feeling way sick even before we had sex that night. It was in the middle of the night which would of been just a few hours ago from now. It was a bad night, because I ended up having to go to the E.R. and finding out I had a fever too. We're not even together anymore, but I have a new guy now at least.

    Still...Worse day of my life though!
     
  2. HotForHoney

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    Sorry your first experience wasn't good. You always have high expectations for things like that.

    Hope things go well with the new guy.
     
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    Im sad for you as you say.."I really loved him" Doesn't sound like he loved you,He was in Lust and just wanted to get your pants off..Make the next guy wait just to be sure he has the same feelings that you do,Don't let the guys use you!...Very sorry you got sick,Im sure that wasn't in your plans..Good luck with you new guy xo
     
  4. Sexual Person

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    Just the worse day of my life and I haven't had sex in nearly a year now. I surely hope the next time is a lot better and maybe even more stimulating.
     
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    I am so sorry to read this story and hope so much that your experience does not put you off sex altogether. Not all men are the same believe me and I hope that you can find true lasting love soon.
     
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    The first guy I had sex with was a complete asshole. It hurt at first knowing he was the one I gave my virginity to but after awhile it didn't matter anymore. It probably won't matter to you eventually either. There are worse things in life.
     
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    We need to move on from such experiences.
    My first time was not great either, she was paid for it by someone else and gave me a freebie to take home which needed Penicillin to get rid of :(
     
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    You sound just like me.
     
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    Sorry to hear that. At least now you have someone new. ;)