Tips to last longer

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  1. Rodbearing

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    Hey guys and gals! Anyone have any tips on lasting longer during sex? I've read a few posts on edging which were helpful but I wanted to see if anyone else had any tips? I last anywhere between 3-10 minutes. Sometimes longer but that's a pretty good average. Anything helps!
     
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    Change positions - drags it out longer!
     
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    Yep that works pretty well unless we go to doggy. That makes me blow it even faster. I'm kinda an ass man. Lol
     
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    I was going to write "Change positions--but not to doggy."

    But it seems you've already reached that consensus.
     
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    Haha yep figured that out!
     
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    Numbing lube, cock ring, not thinking about sex, jerking off about an hour or so before sex.
     
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    Jerking off helps me a ton
     
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    I've never heard of numbing lube. Sounds interesting though. Jerking off might be a good idea too. Thanks
     
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    Stop when you feel it feel too good
     
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    Don't try to last longer. When you concentrate on lasting longer....you cum.
    Concentrate on giving your partner as much pleasure as possible. This thought process will take your mind off of you. It's all mental.
     
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    It worked for me a few times for me doing edging while having intercourse.
    When I felt close I either stopped or slowed down. The first time I did she had a puzzled look but when I explained what I was doing she was good with it as long as I didn't hold it back in a way I didn't ejaculate and ruined it for myself.
    It was a turn on also to feel me twitch and orgasm inside her when I stopped, and that I had more semen come out.
     
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    Do Kegel exercise
     
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    I found that edging myself has helped me loads to last longer during sex. So when I am not having sex, I may masturbate for hours without cumming; always ensuring I stop stroking when I get too close.

    If you do that a lot, you'll find that you can last until your partner has had as many orgasms as She wants!
     
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    This is key. As an older guy I have problems that I didn't have when I was younger. I find that certain positions make me cum real quick so I avoid them. If wifey wants those positions I tell her she will have to wait for a second erection. I can last longer the second time around.
     
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    Use extra lube to reduce friction.
     
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    Won't a numbing lube numb her also?
     
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    The problem sometimes is, when you last longer, you cannot maintain hard for a longer time. That's a dilemma.
     
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    Sometimes that's the case, it goes on a timer.
     
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    little blue pills
     
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    A few years ago, I started to use breathing techniques. I've found that keeping my breathing under control, I can dictate how long I last and my partners generally appreciate it. When they are ready to finish for the night, they ask me to cum and within 5 minutes we are laying on each other smiling and breathless.