tips? ideas?

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  1. joeart

    joeart New Member

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    hi again everyone. i was wondering if anyone could help me make anal more enjoyable for me and my gf (i know i already made a post about anal, but i didn't think this would fit there.)

    the thing is, i am always enjoying it, but after a while she gets uncomfortable and we have to stop. i have a feeling that we need to take a lot more time to prepare. i've read a lot about massaging the anus and other foreplay techniques, and maybe we're not taking enough time with that? is there a way that i can comfort her into it and make the whole experience longer, and more enjoyable for the both of us? i want to make it feel amazing for her, and i know she likes the feeling of it for a while, but i don't want her to get uncomfortable!

    please help, and thank you :)
     
  2. melicious

    melicious The Old Maid
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    My first response is that anal feels amazing for me, but I don't necessarily want him to take longer at it. I like it, I enjoy it, I cum from it....but it does get uncomfortable fast. To me.... it's not a time to take one's sweet time.

    Now, I'll add a longer reply in a bit with tips. This was just my opinoin.
     
  3. HerHubby

    HerHubby The SF Poet Laureate
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    I have read here and elsewhere that one should use what seems to be too much lube and then double that!
     
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    yeah, also, it gets easier when you do it more often. Just keep working that rustic pleasure hole.
     
  5. joeart

    joeart New Member

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    lol, thank you kind people.
    i'm looking forward to your post, melicious!
    :)
     
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    zelenka_rose New Member

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    LUBE! And remember, it's not the vagina, no in and out thrusting! Get in and stay in. Then just use little back and forth thrusts. It'll feel amazing.
     
  7. 22JessicaWu

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    Yeah, gotta blame the pornos for that thrusting stuff! :D