Timing your orgasms to match hers

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  1. Nobody

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    Are many guys able to do this?

    I would love to be able to cum as she does, but I either find myself finishing after or before my partner.
     
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    Maybe I'm lucky, but I can usually time my orgasm to match one of hers as she usually has around 5 or 6 each time we have sex and that's after being together for 38 years! I used to think she was faking, but she cums a lot more now, so I know when it's happening.
    Maybe she's the lucky one, LOL.

    OK, we don't do it as often as we used to, but it's still good!!!
     
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    When I cum it triggers my wife's orgasm. We always cum together.
     
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    She only has one?:eek
     
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    Elvis haha!!!

    How wonderful to be together for that long and still to be having sex...

    Do you both have other lovers too....(if that isnt being too personal)..

    I am just intrigued with the longevity of a relationship and the challenge of remaining with just that one person...

    Is it possible.....anyone?
     
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    ps

    Elvis are you English?
     
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    Thorn & I have been married for 30 years (this autumn). He is my best friend, my only lover, ---- a true soul mate that I seriously could not live without.

    The challenge of remaining with just one person? For me, the "challenge" would come if I ever had to face a day without him.
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    ON TOPIC: We have orgasmed together, however, we find that we enjoy our orgasms more if we do it at different times. The reason is because he likes to hold it more steady as he is ejaculating, and I am one that likes to move and grind as I am orgasming.
     
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    that is about the sweetest thing i ever heard one saying about their loved one.. makes me cry almost! for you i wish this day will never come.. thanks for letting me read this..
     
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    I don't deliberately do this, but if I sense she is getting close to coming during intercourse it arouses me. I get so aroused that I have to hold myself back, and then when she comes, I come! It isn't a deliberate thing, but being a part of her arousal is so hot that I am always right on the edge, so her first gasp of orgasm is always enough to tip me over.

    And later on I realise that we came together, again!
     
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    I am more with Rose on this.
    We can cum together but like it better
    if we cum one at a time. for one thing
    when i cum I am done, And I like to make
    Her cum at least 3 times or get her into
    a continious orgasm, And making that happen
    takes total concentration on her pleasure
    then I can cum at my own pace.:sf
     
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    Every woman is different, my wife is easily orgasmic, and I can make her come multiple times with oral if I have a short break in between. But if she comes with oral, she cannot come again with intercourse. On the other hand, if I don't make her come with oral prior to intercourse, she can come if the moon is in the right place and all the planets are aligned and so on.

    But if she doesn't come before or during intercourse (planets in the wrong place), she doesn't want to come after I do! So it is really hit and miss which is why I give her an orgasm or two before and therefore our intercourse is as it is. But it works and she's happy, and she always gets an orgasm or two one way or another.
     
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    Yes I'm English, but it's not my fault, I blame my parents.:D
    As for being intrigued by how relationships can last so long, you have to realise that the devil you know is usually better than the one you don't, plus she's a damn good cook!

    Mrs E needs sex more than I do these days, but she's not quite 60 yet and has always been a very tasty, horny lady.

    We don't have lovers as such, but occasionally go to swinger parties to meet guys for a 3some. Now here's the problem, about 5% of guys we've met are able to perform in that set up, it's psychological I guess. So she doesn't get a lot of extras.:ugh
     
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    She usually has one from oral or from masturbation and another from intercourse.
     
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    Elvis

    I would recognise that English humour anywhere....its priceless..

    You remind me of a guy I mail sometimes in Australia...he is 72 now and has the same brand of humour.....you arent an Aquarian are ya?

    Of course you are....haha...

    They are the most eccentric of the sign....i love that Uranus humour

    lol!!
     
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    My wife and I have been together for 45 years and neither has had another partner - ever.
     
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    Wow

    Thanks igor...

    What is your secret?

    :)
     
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    I typically come with her on her second one. Like to get the first one out of the way for her (so to say) and then the second one is usually a big one. :)
     
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    It's not my anus, it's Uranus that you need to watch!;)

    I'm not too sure about priceless either, everything has a price.:D
    Nice to meet you SexyScorp, it's a shame they don't have a PM facility here.
     
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    Elvis said
    Where do you go Elvis, A swingers club in Spain.
    I have never been to one but checked them out in
    the adds. I did a lot of swinging but only to private homes
    then only to open parties where everyone did it in the same
    room.
    And we had very good luck and found that their was very few
    men that couldn't get it up, and they generally weren't invited
    to the next party.

    PS we do have PM facilities here.

    Welcome, bighiker2003.
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    ^^^^^^^^^^ click right their.
    and good luck with Sexy------:sf
     
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    Not too far from us in Alicante city there are 8 clubs, but now we go to a monthly private party run by an English swinger site webmaster who moved house to a location an hour from us.
    Possibly due to our age and being fussy, we don't get much action, but the parties are fun to be at. They don't allow single guys anymore unless invited by a fem or couple, but most solo guys on the web live in fantasy land and when confronted with the goods, fall down badly.


    Thanks for the tip about PM Bighiker, I found it a little while ago.
     
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