Tickle Problem, Help Me!!

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  1. Blitzz

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    Hello,

    I have been in a relationship for some time and we decided to move to base 3. I made her climax three times (it was the first time I got past base 2 with a girl), and she was absolutely amazed at how dexterous I was with my fingers and tongue. When it was her turn, her hand job was great, but when she started sucking, something gave me this huge tickling (based around the head of the dick) feeling that I couldn’t help but take her mouth off. She says it was her tongue, and proceeded to use her hands only. It was still good but I feel awkward that I was tickled and not pleased...
    It was my first blowjob by the way.

    Should I be worried? Will it pass? Can I do anything to stop it? Is it because she is doing it to lightly without applying enough pressure?

    Please answer any of these questions if you can,


    Greatly appreciated,
    Michael

    PS: I masturbate at least once a day, but I am thinking of stopping and saving it all for when I’m with her... should I?
     
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    A blow job is way different than masturbation. You'll experience totally different sensations.

    If you feel comfortable, you could 'coach' her as to what you are liking... and what is 'too sensative' for you to handle.

    If you're new at this, she may be, also. Take some time to communicate to each other. Give yourselves the freedom to make mistakes... and learn from them.

    None of us are porn stars from 'day one'! Heck! - it probably took me at least a week. :lol
     
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    Interesting. In a woman, that ticklishness would normally indicate hypersensitivity of the clitoris (or nervousness). Which makes me wonder if your glans isn't particularly sensitive. Are you uncircumcised? It could be that she needs to apply less pressure, or vary her movements so that the glans isn't being constantly stimulated.

    Like Rose has said, you should communicate your discomfort and desires to her...she can't learn the subtleties of your body's sexual response (nor can you learn them) if you don't talk about what's happening and experiment a bit. I'm sure she wants the experience to be as enjoyable as possible for you :)
     
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    Many Thanks!!

    Now that I hear it from you friends, it makes sense. And yes, you are right, it is her first time too. I am a very direct guy so we do talk about it; we talk about everything we go through. I called her up last night and talked about it. She expressed that I was good for a first timer, and I had made her feel good like she had never done (I am her first guy), and I told her about what i had felt.

    We were perfectly comfortable in talking about it, and we will get there with experience... learning with each other and how the other likes it...

    Thanks a lot for your replies, and if anyone has any further comments, please post :D:D:D

    Many Thanks,
    Michael
     
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    Many Thanks!! (Cont.)

    I forgot to mention, to the guy readers, it feels almost exactly like trying to keep drilling after you cum, despite the after-period. It’s like trying to continue while you are loosing the erection etc.

    But with her i didn’t loose the erection, nor did i cum, i just had the feeling..

    Hope it helps you understand,
    Michael:D
     
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    That's the spirit! :tup
     
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    And communication during the act will help as well. Nothing like "on-the-job training"!!
     
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    Rose,

    We do communicate a lot... Everything we know about each other we teach each other... When i was with her yesterday and I said, “Teach me”, she guided my hand (down to her pussy), and spoke to me while our eyes were closed. I quickly came-to, and started going solo while she just sat back and enjoyed. I spoke a lot to her when she first wanked me, and yesterday I explained to her how to suck my dick. I could tell she loved it, and when i pulled her head off (because of the tickling) i could tell she wanted to keep playing on (what she calls) "Big Boy" :p

    Communication is not the problem, she used to be VERY shy but i got her out of it. She is 100% open with me, I just don’t know why it was ticklish and how i can stop it, or advise her to stop it, because i don’t want her to feel guilty, or like its her fault...

    Thanks in Advance,
    Michael
     
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    Practice, practice, practice.... :(
     
  10. ninja08hippie

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    Tongues aren't smooth, sometimes when I'm really horny and the tip is really sensitive her tongue can feel like sandpaper and I ask her to stop, but most of the time it's great. If it was your first blowjob them you were probably really excited so it was really sensitive.

    This thread makes me think of Seinfeld.
    So she was a tickler?
    She was a tickler.
    And you're not a stickler for the tickler?
    Not a stickler for the tickler.