Thrusting Preference

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by wcniedba, Jun 19, 2007.

  1. wcniedba

    wcniedba New Member

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    This is a question for the women. When you think about "good sex", what sort of thrusting techniques does the guy use? My ex-girlfriends have seemed to like it hard and intense (at least after being warmed up). I'm guessing that causes more clitoral stimulation. But it's hard as a guy to go hard and fast for very long without cumming. And I feel like if I stop to rest for a minute that she'll go back to zero. So is it the ability for a guy to go long and hard that makes him good in bed to you ladies? I know that variety is good too but I'm talking about the actual part in sex that makes you cum.
     
  2. Dreama

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    God, I usually orgasm before my fiance when we have sex, while in the act of intercourse. I like it hard and fast, but I also like slow and gentle. And god, if he stops to rest a few minutes, and looks in my eyes, it drives me crazy.
     
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    Depends on the mood I'm in.
     
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    That's what I was going to say.

    If a guy were to only ever do one thing, how boring would that get? Going hard and fast is great. Sometimes. Going slow and deep is great. Sometimes. Going shallow and teasing is great. Sometimes.

    It's all about the mood and the feeling behind it.


    And fingers always help with the clitoral stimulation!
     
  5. Princess_Olga

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    As long as he's not imitating a jackhammer, I'm good. Especially a larger than average jackhammer...it just doesnt' do anything for me except make me wish he'd hurry up and come so it'd be over with.
     
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    My girl always comes before I do, but I always try to give her at least 3 orgasoms before I cum during intercourse,

    I tell you what is fun if you really want to last for a long time,
    right before you are about to cum jump on her pussy and start to eat the hell out of it and then when you have calmed down a bit go at it again, then jump down there again so on and so on,
     
  7. Stormy

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    Well your gf must be the happiest lady on the Planet! I've yet to meet the man who's that considerate. Most guys, once they get started, aren't going to stop like that.

    I tend to like it slow and easy in my pussy, hard and fast in my ass. Go figure.
     
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    It really depends on the mood and stimulation there has to be foreplay :D
     
  9. Joseph S.

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    My girl enjoys it when I have rhythm to my thrusting. For instance, I might give her 3 shallows thrusts and then one deep thrust and then repeat.
     
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    There's a technique I'd love to have a man try with me; five shallow, five deep for as long as he can sustain it.
     
  11. Fliteskates

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    I will do a shallow thrust..three deep...a shallow..deep..2 shallow..5 deep..etc..other times ill do a rhythm like you said... then change it up in the middle to surprise her... drives her crazy.
     
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    Thank God I am not a man this sounds more like lamaze than sex.
     
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    Like others, it depends on my mood. But I usally like it slow to begin with, but towards the end, the faster/harder the better.
     
  14. Hot Wheels

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    How the hell do you keep count during sex??
    *HW is hard pushed to remember his own name during sex*:nuts

    Mrs HW says its got something to do with men not being able to "multi task":uhh:
     
  15. Fliteskates

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    I don't usually have a number in my head, I just kind of feel a rhythm when I'm doing it.

    It isn't that hard to keep count I feel, when I do.. of course I'm used to skating with a puck on a sheet of ice, while trying to be aware of my teammates positions, keeping an eye on the defenseman in front of me, another eye on the goalie, and also feel where the backcheckers are coming from... unless I want to get Ko'd.

    So uh ya, guys can multitask - if it is something we care about.
     
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    GODDAMN!! You women drive me friggin bananas with your ambiguity! As if, just before sex, all of you women say smething like "I think I'm in the mood for about 7 minutes of gentility, 15 minutes of pounding, and then 5 mintes of moderate halfway thrusting."

    Here... this sums it up:

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    wcniedba, since you (and all other men) are not a mind-reader...

    Match your thrust strokes with her breathing. Fast breathing = fast thrust. Slow breathing = slow thrust.
     
  17. Nettle

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    I love that pic, lol.
     
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    I like a mixture of slow && fast.
    My boyfrined loses control a bit when hes too fast... but hes real strong && loving when hes slow... Has anyone ever watched 300?
     
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    LoL...I just had to laugh when I saw this dude.
     
  20. Nettle

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    No, I missed it, but I wanted to see it...