This is a question for the women. When you think about "good sex", what sort of thrusting techniques does the guy use? My ex-girlfriends have seemed to like it hard and intense (at least after being warmed up). I'm guessing that causes more clitoral stimulation. But it's hard as a guy to go hard and fast for very long without cumming. And I feel like if I stop to rest for a minute that she'll go back to zero. So is it the ability for a guy to go long and hard that makes him good in bed to you ladies? I know that variety is good too but I'm talking about the actual part in sex that makes you cum.