threesomes

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  1. blublu

    blublu New Member

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    Hey guys

    I was wondering a little today, didnt have much work to do ;)

    When a couple agrees to a threesome, what happens when you find that person an your about to start getting dirty.

    Isn't it a little weird? Seeing another guy have his way with your SO, an visa versa?

    :p
     
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    It's only weird if you let it be.
     
  3. blublu

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    I think the whole weird feeling would add to the whole "Dirty" factor though
     
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    Having done a few threesomes I do not see it as "weird." Instead it is knowing she is enjoying herself and you are helping her to enjoy it. Behind all of that are boundaries and communication that should ensure that the experience is enjoyable for all without anyone too uncomfortable.
     
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    Whatever you guys do, before the 3some, make your rules BEFOREHAND!!
     
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    Rebekka, I second that. very important. Without rules before hand, feelings/egos can be easily bruised, and damage done may be irreversible. Good luck!!
     
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    This might be stating the obvious but communication is key.
    Going through with a threesome was one of the best things me and my fiance have done in our relationship. Through it we got to know and appreciate each other better. I feel like every day I am learning more and more about how lucky I am to be so close to her.