[Ask a Girl] Threesome?

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  1. travis beck

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    We have talked about a threesome, both ways, for a long time. We may do it, MFF, this weekend. If we do, she wants an MFM next time. For the girls, what am I missing? We have been married over 14 years and have kids. Is this a mistake?
     
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    Not sure what you mean by "What am I missing"? Me & my husband only do MFM's. I don't do girls, and he doesn't want another woman. And honestly, most men can't keep up with two women ;)

    In my opinion, as long as you two have talked in depth about the details of what you both expect from it and each other and truly have a STRONG Relationship - go for it. You only live once..... If you find that you don't care for it, or aren't getting what you thought you would - chalk it up to experience and move on...
     
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    I'd have to agree as much as I'd love a MFF I wouldn't be able to keep up haha MFM seems so much hotter but that's just me
     
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    First time will be awkward for everyone. It gets better with time. A few drinks helps loosen thing up. Just don't over do it.
    Only done MFF. SO likes getting done by her friend while I'm doing her friend.
     
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    My man wants a mff but veto on Mfm. So we didn't do any of that together.
    He say that that's not fair since I have done those things before I met him and he haven't.
    But that's not my problem. He is 8 years older than me and had enough time to do it.
     
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    have done a ffm once but not adverse to another :)
     
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    may I apply perhaps Me You and @Mittimer :cool:
     
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    I'm ok with this. Very, very ok with this.
     
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    Im watching this for sure!!
     
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    is it wrong of me to have a little movement in reading this lol:rolleyes:
     
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    this has so got to happen :D
     
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    As you should, my dear. ;)
    So when can you make it to FL :p
     
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    Jumping in the car now!! ;)
     
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    This little caveat is my red flag. Ifyou were totally uncomfortable with a MMF or MFM encounter, would she still be game?
     
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    So, anything happen??
     
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    Why is that a red flag? She has expressed being with me and another guy before. The MFF was to get me to agree to it for a one time thing. I'm not thrilled about her being with another guy, but that was the deal and I'll be there.

    We did have a lot of fun this weekend with one of her old sorority sisters. After that, I'm fine with a one time MFM:)
     
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    Yes! PM me and I'll give you details of you want.
     
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    No PMing.
    Put details here if you want to share.
     
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    Did you and J ever do anything?

    I have a meeting, but will give some details later. For all the guys that have ever fantasized about two women, it is not a disappointment:cool:
     
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    I am still a one man woman.
    That's not going to change.

    Actually, on second thought, I don't really want to know, lol.