threesome

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  1. l49

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    My wife spoke interest in have another woman join us in sex. How can I make this happen?
     
  2. skinnyminnie

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    Post an ad on craigslist, ashleymadison (Sp?), Cupid, fling. (dot coms)

    Or call an escort
     
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    This is a trick question right? How? Lucky sob
     
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    It is not as easy as it sounds. The sites are sketchy.. since finding the right person is a long tough process, and even then you have to figure that you are pretty much having a one night stand with a complete stranger. I'm sure there are some legit people on CL that would go for it, but your odds of getting a whack job are pretty high.

    Escorts are a 50/50.. because you have to be concerned with diseases due to the nature of her business. Since there is a likelyhood of some girl on girl action as well ( you hope!) that will make safe sex that much more difficult.

    My suggestion to you is to have her recruit a friend. Someone you both trust. Have her over for dinner.. throw a bottle of wine down her throat and test the water a bit. You woudl be surprised at how much more receptive another woman is when your girl is making the first move.
     
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    I had a two-women threesome with my mistress at the time and her girlfriend! I am also a member of a swinger's site here, and I have had a few two-men and one women threesomes. By observation on that site, many, many more couples are after women than women are after couples.

    I did some work for an escort in the city where I live, and she saw a few couples, and she professed to like women a lot! In Australia at least, escorts at the middle to high end of the market have less incidence of STIs than the general population. They DO practice safe sex, because it isn't in their interest to not be able to work. Safe sex is unprotected oral, if that's what you want, and protected intercourse.

    I remember watching my girlfriend and her girlfriend, and it was a lovely thing to see. And then it was my turn, this is how we did it, and later the girlfriend and I both realised that we had a lot in common. It was uncanny that two women making love was quite similar to what I normally did, except I followed it up with more, of course.

    I had another threesome with two women when I spent a bit of time in South East Asia; and that was less lesbian and more for me, although they did get off with each other. This was about 30 years ago, so well before the sleaze that has overtaken tourist spots in that part of the world; more that Asian girls generally have an easy-going attitude towards sex.
     
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    maybe she has a friend lol, i had a threesome once, was another guy, but was fun tag teaming her, must have been a thrill for her to have two guys sucking on her breasts, and kinda fun for me to say stuff like "i'll handle internal you take external" i nearly said "hike" or whatever lol. But it put a smile on my face to know she was in absolute heaven
     
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    She should make it happen. Or at least take the lead.

    Your job is to get an erection. Make that two.
     
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    I don't think she should ask a friend. I could never look my friend in the face after that and I would never want her to feel my boyfriend inside of her. I think you should pick someone neither of you is attached to. That way you can cut off all ties cleanly. Your bedroom should be private. The last thing you want is your friends sharing your secrets. As far as STDs go, anyone I bring in my bedroom must be screened for all STIs. I go get checked frequently and all my partners do as well. Any girl who can't comply with that isn't welcome anyway. If you see her documentation, then you can have freedom to play in any way you like until you all decide it is over.
     
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    There are groups which solely participate in sexual events such as these. If you're too "shy" or whichever word you would choose to describe it and would like someone more personable or close to you- go with a friend. I'm sure your wife didn't just think that she wants to have a threesome out of the blue. More than likely, she has someone, or someones in mind.


    Since it was her idea, you should let her run the show. Granted, the both of you should decide on who it is you'll do whatever it is with, but i you show too much interest (unless your wife is the type that wouldn't mind) you can run the risk of souring her fantasy and jealously can take the wonderment's place.


    Make sure that it is someone that is clean. That is why I mention groups (like vampiric groups- they often have monthly or bi-weekly blood/urine tests to make sure they're all clean before they engage in "blood swapping").
     
  10. Alwayslearningsex

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    My only exception is escort, I think it's hit and miss and a friend of mine who tried a few says they look at the clock. No good except for a quick relief.

    Someone you trust and have an attraction to, you and her. You both need to agree, no pressuring the other one.
    From reading a few, my word of caution is to avoid paying too much attention to the other one. Have fun with her but REMEMBER who you are witrh, and it's her experience, make sure you respect boundaries.

    Post ads, one I heard of is plenty of fish.
     
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    really .......quite woman interested like this...