Threatened by dildo size?

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  1. Country_Lily

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    So with hubby working away all week and you guys and girls making me so horny, I thought I would buy myself a new toy.

    This new toy has given me much enjoyment and fulfillment just so we are clear :-D

    Well hubby met said toy last night and his reaction was one of disgust (I think because it was an extra large one I bought this time, whoops) and anyway he is so not happy about it.

    Where do I go from here? Do I just pretend I don't like it and hide it and only use it while he is away or should I try and re-introduce said toy again during foreplay? Arghh I am so lost as to what I should do, so opinions needed to help me make my own mind up please xx
     
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    I think you should keep it to yourself. Maybe sometime he will want you to bring it out of hiding. It's better for it to be his idea. He is probably afraid that it will stretch you out.
     
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  3. alwaystry

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    Hmmm , that's a tough one. Well, it's kind of too late. He knows you have it and enjoy it ,probably took a hit to his man pride , I get it , I used to be that way. His reaction doesn't sound good , I'm not sure if he will come around based on what you said. Maybe you keep it but use it only by yourself and have him pick you out a new one...well , together.
     
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    When he is a way play fire girl ( slide down the pole ) When he is home play fire girl again . . . .use his pole its easy rite :)
     
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    I think he should back off from everything right now.

    Nothing is going to get resolved the next 2-3 weeks, it's just going to turn into something else. (Club)

    That being said, how did he feel in you? Still tight?
     
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    It wasn't like it was huge compared to what you showed me about you know who HFH lol sex still just as good but I think you are right alwaystry, I hurt his pride. He is use to me not needing anything else because he has never worked away this long before. Maybe I will wrangle in the toy buying and concentrate more on buying costumes for the bedroom. Thanks guys I have made up my mind :)

    And HFH you are right I kept that toy a secret for a reason and I think I brought it out for all the wrong reasons xx
     
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  7. alwaystry

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    Okay lets see this toy. And for an accurate assessment I am have to see it in action ;-)
     
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    Lol hmmm I might get myself in trouble again hahaha ;-)
     
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    Maybe share your toys with him. Or two outfits per toy you buy.

    Let him see you use the toy, share with him while he's away (video chat).
     
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    That's sounds good babe, I think via video will be great. Thank you xoxo
     
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    You should let him punish you with it ;) . Just act like your in pain :)
     
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    Alternativly throw the toy away and give me a call :p
    x
     
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    I once read in Playboy (see, I was reading the article) that the dildo was a man's greatest enemy. That's probably how he feels. I like the video idea.
     
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    Personally, I wouldn't feel threatened. My wife has two vibrators the smallest is like 6" and the big one would be at least 8". I love to use both of them on my wife and she loves it when i use it on her. Maybe he was just shocked by the size, give him time and he will cum round :p

    I for one would love to use any toys on you.

    I think you should post a pic of the dildo that's gotten you into trouble though :)
     
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    Lmao nooooo I might get caught with it again hahaha
    Ps I would love to be a fly on the wall in your bedroom anotherguy ;-)
     
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    Wish you could join me and the wife in the bedroom and have some real fun ;)
     
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    maybe try and reintroduce it. I was with someone who had a large toy and was kind of intimidated at first. But, I warmed up to it and enjoyed using it on her.
     
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    I've always loved watching women attack a large dildo...not sure why. I think, because of the mindset of the women doing it...the fact that they want something that size inside of them, is kind of a turn on... Having said that, I probably wouldn't want my girl to use it all the time because I want her to feel " filled up" by ME, too....
     
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    I am not intimidated by Dildos I have bought most of them for her. Last one I got the most of the reviews from the women said it was almost or too big. I bought it when it got to the house it was just slightly bigger than me only because it was round where I am kinda flat across the top. Next one ill go bigger.
     
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    i was a bit like that when i first seen my new girls one as well me not being all that big & all but then i thought so be it such it up & anyway when we do have sex & all i can make her orgasm over & over so thats all i should care about & now sometime we even get it out so maybe he has to start thinkin like that or even you can make sure he knows how to get u off
     
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