How important or relevant is a sense of humour in a relationship for you? Also: What sort of humour is appealing and what is off-putting or irritating? If you haven't noticed - I use humour/comedy quite a bit in my interactions with everyone. Normally I like to think it's not too bad or annoying, but acknowledge that at times it is downright "stupid," "screwball," or "goofy." So, I got to pondering how others perceive that. Is it a Good Thing for a person (man or woman) to have a sense of humour, is it a Bad Thing, or is it completely Not Applicable? I'm surprised at myself for having not asked this before now. This, of course, goes out as a question to both men and women (with the focus being on humour pertaining to non-platonic relationships).