All orgasms are good, by definition! But, oh, sometimes the building up is just like you're going crazy, so close, so wonderful and for such a long time. Then comes the orgasm itself and it's just... you know what I mean. Do you have a method to getting those? Or it just happens? With me, it's a total surprise. I mean, he can do the same thing another day and only get me to a normal orgasm. I think a lot of it is linked to the visual. Is it all in the mind?