this will probably be the strangest question youve ever read...

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  1. sexual Trex

    sexual Trex New Member

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    ok so im no pimp or anything like that but when i do find a girl i like i usually get her. now thats not the problem. my problem is that im a really nice guy, too nice sometimes, and when im with a girl (a girl that i actually have feelings for) im most always saying and doing stuff that would make girls melt, not even on purpose or anything. well anyway long story short they usually fall for me and get attached way way way too fast. which i guess from the outside can seem like a good thing, but im 20 years old and that kinda crap freaks me out so i usually wind up doing something to screw it up once i see that they are attached to me. its like you can only listen to your favorite song oh so many times, after a while ur gonna tire of it.
     
  2. AnonymousOne

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    You ... didn't ask a question .... :uhh:
     
  3. Puss_in_boots

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    I noticed that too..I was all like, "dude, what was your question again?" :lol
     
  4. AnonymousOne

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    I'm so confused! :lol
     
  5. Joe

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    I'd say, YES!




    Or NO!

    :shrug
     
  6. heelfetish

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    Yeah, I'm a little lost as to what your question is too. But, um, seems like an interesting problem to have. :lol
     
  7. AnonymousOne

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    Which problem? The inability to ask a question? :lol
     
  8. heelfetish

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    That too! :) I was referring to the 'problem' of having the uncanny ability to pick up women and have them fall in love. Actually, it doesn't sound like much of a problem at all. *laugh*
     
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    yea, makes ya feel sorry for him, huh? *sarcasm*
     
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    Sounds like a fantasy story to me.
     
  11. sexual Trex

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    haha i was drunk when i wrote that, and i got to a point where i realized that i forgot where i was going with the post so i just posted it lol

    yea it would be nice if it was a fantasy story... but always the wrong girls fall for me... and they dont just fall they get like absolutely attached and that kinda creeps me out. but ofcourse this wouldnt be a problem if we were talking about girls that were my type or anything like that.
     
  12. heelfetish

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    And yet there still isn't a question. :lol
     
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    Perhaps you should start looking for girls that are "you're type" to begin with. It doesn't sounds like these girls are doing anything wrong, but falling for the wrong guy. That's unfortunate, because I'm sure this situation ends up "inconveniencing" and hurting them far more than it does you......
     
  14. sexual Trex

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    yea.. thats why i feel bad cuz it doesnt really hurt me except for when i have to hurt their feelings that bothers me a lil..


    and as far as looking for girls.. these girls im talking about just kinda fell into my lap (literally speaking :lol) im lame as hell when it comes to meeting girls



    lol heelfetish i dont think there ever was or will be a question
     
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    Quite the heartfelt charmer, aren't ya?
     
  16. sexual Trex

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    provided i have feelings for the girl... yea i am not like im mean to them or anything, but ive been in so many crappy relationships with crappy women that i have a hard time caring about a girl
     
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    It takes two crappy people to make a crappy relationship. I highly suspect that you're in need of an attitude adjustment, young sir.
     
  18. Joe

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    "It takes two crappy people to make a crappy relationship."

    I strongly disagree with that statement. It takes two people to make a good relationship, but only one to make it bad. It's the same with any team/couples activity.
     
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    That was very poor choice of wording on my part. You may still disagree, that's cool, but what I was getting at is that sometimes one person's emotional baggage clashes horribly with the other's emotional baggage and relationship problems ensue. A relationship with a different person, who is absent the same emotional baggage, can result in a far healthier, happier relationship. I think it all depends on the two people involved. I didn't mean to imply that dysfunctional relationships result exclusively from the interaction between extremely screwed-up people. Sorry.
     
  20. bighiker2003

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    I sort of have the feeling that he is bragging
    about nothing.:sf