This sucks!!!

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    I love sex and I am great at it, but I suck at relationships. Do any of you guys have this problem?
    Usually the girls I am with boast I was the best they ever had, best kisser, best pussy eater, best fucker, best dick, most consecutive orgasms, etc.
    But my relationships never last. I hate it! I have put too much focus on the sexual and I need a remedial lesson in just being in a relationship!
     
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    try dating someone without having sex with them :O
     
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    I have tried. Very difficult and I have to at least be engaging in heavy make out sessions. Same result.
     
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    do the opposite of the bold text your wrote.
     
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    what exactly happens that ends the relationship?
     
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    They say my expectations are too high.... let me think some more.
     
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    what are your expectations?
     
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    Basically I make them feel attractive, and the sex is great but somehow I communicate I want more of them as a person. I do not feel I communicate that though. But I must be unless the SO has self esteem issues or something?
     
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    I'd like my SO to be interested in me, our relationship, getting married, raising a family, sex on a regular basis, blah blah blah
     
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    sounds like you need to be more picky about who you choose to be in a relationship with. find out BEFORE you start dating that yall want the same things out of it
     
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    How do you find a decent girl you can discuss sexual preferences with before you start dating without being accused of being a weirdo?
     
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    i dont know....i thought if you became friends then you could talk and be open about stuff. dont get into a relationship and THEN find out stuff like this. GOSH
     
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    huh? Can you try phrasing that differently? I'm short on brain power.
     
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    maybe you should become friends with a girl first, good enough friends that you two are open with each other and can talk about things like sexual preferences, etc. if you get into a relationship without knowing things like that or talking about them, you're setting yourself up for doom
     
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    I have never been friends with a girl I could discuss ass to mouth with.
    If I become friends with a girl there is physical attraction on both our parts and by the 2nd or 3rd time you hang out they expect physical action of some kind.
     
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    well damn. ive never expected any action from a guy ive hung out with 3 times
     
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    Well you are just a great girl then.
    When I have met someone and hang out with them, if I don't make a move by the 3rd date they complain or ask questions. By the 4th of 5th there needs to be more than kissing.
     
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    you are dating the wrong girls.

    stop getting with nymphs
     
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    I need someone to pick a girl for me. I am having a terrible time.
     
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    i'll pick her out. im super picky :D