This is a weird one. It’s weird because I seem to ‘suffer’ from premature ejaculation (PE) - but it doesn’t affect my wife’s pleasure; it only affects mine. Let me explain… If I was to enter my wife and thrust continuously, I haven’t timed it, but I am sure I would only last about a minute or so. The sight of my wife and the feeling of full penetrative sex is soo intense for me that I cannot understand how other men can thrust continuously inside the woman they love for over 5 minutes (for example) and still not climax. Have they not got nerve endings on their dicks or something? Doesn’t the mere sight of their lady turn them on? I dunno. Maybe I’m an ultra visual and sensual person that gets turned on very easily.. again, I dunno. To get around this ‘1 minute climaxing’ I make sure I thrust for say half a minute in one position, and then go back to some foreplay on my wife (to cool myself down) and to keep her horny, before re-entering my wife for more thrusting. So in this way I can pleasure my wife for as long as I want, as long as I don’t thrust for more than half a minute. I always make sure that my wife climaxes before me. I let her have whatever she wants to achieve this. Lucky for me she never asks for continuous thrusting My personal desire though is to thrust continuously for a good few minutes without climaxing. It's just the best part of sex for me. And this is why it’s a weird one. I can ‘have sex’ with my wife for as long as she wants, and I can always ensure she enjoys her time in bed, BUT I cannot get myself to experience my own personal desire for long continuous thrusting. I have got around this in the past by using condoms – they do indeed numb the feeling and make you last longer, but they also take away a lot of pleasure for both wifey and me. I have also climaxed early on and then worked my way back to a second erection, which does tend to last a lot longer than the first erection. But, alas, the pleasure of a second coming is far below the first time come, which has its own unique, sought after pleasure. And also, after coming a first time I don’t feel it’s fair on my wife as I’m not so ‘up for it’ on the second time round. I can make her come easily, but it feels very mechanical for me as if I’m just going through the motions, so to speak. I’m pretending I’m enjoying myself when I’m not. But as long as my wife is fully satisfied I am happy for her. But I hate pretending even though she doesn’t know and still climaxes. It's weird cos my wife is 200% satisfied after sex every time, whilst I'm probably bubbling around the 80% satisfaction mark... :ugh Any tips then, people? Have I really got PE?