I was just wondering how many people on :sf have been divorced, what caused it, and how they handled it. For me, I have been divorced twice, the first, I married my high school sweetheart. After 11 years we basically just grew apart. The second was a rebound thing that lasted 18 months. She was the "bitch" I've talked about in other posts. The third is the most wonderful person I have ever met. In 18 years of bliss we have never argued or even raised our voices at each other. We are soul mates for eternity. Just an aside, I have only made love to three women in my life. Monogamous to the max.