Thinking of becoming a porn star

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  1. UncertaintyPrinciple

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    Mind you, I live a very conservative life for the most part, and havent had a bunch of sexual partners. But I am thinking, like what reason is there to have been born with such equipment. This is not a brag, most girls just look at me as something they'd like to try out, pretty much a novelty item. ive been used. and most other girls dont want to come near something like this. so i think well in porn, its made for people like me with my oddity. i could end up becoming a big time pornstar, only my morality would be totally tarnished and id lose myself in the process more or less. and that scares me. but the more time goes on, i wonder if it wouldnt be a bad idea. its, ideally, made for guys who are well endowed. cause lets face it, in life, there isnt much use for a really big penis, lol like honestly besides of course for shock value honestly. which suits a career in porn. just whatever i wanted to do in life would be difficult after that point. sort of like a point of no return. and that is another scary thing.
     
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    Interesting post. I'm not sure I understand exactly your motivation. You mention using your "equipment", but is that enough? Would you be happy doing that every day? Would the money make you happy? and then, yes, you'd have to be OK with the idea of images of you being available forever...and for everyone, including family.
    I just saw this video today, and even though this is a female pornstar talking, some things apply:
     
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    I am thinking you haven't met the right woman yet. I bet there are plenty of women out there who would appreciate YOU for you (personality, wit, etc) and what you got downstairs. Porn star comes with a ton of baggage from what I've read.
     
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    I'd strongly advise you to look up interviews with former/current male pornstars on what being in The Industry is like. The demands it makes of your body. The demands it makes of your psyche. How it can fuck up all of your relationships. How it will affect how people view you. The list goes on...

    Honestly, as much fun as "fucking hot chicks for a living!" seems like on the surface -- the possible damage and the day-to-day demands make it entirely unappealing to me.

    I wish I could find/provide links to the videos/articles I've read. Unfortunately I can't seem to find any of them. I do remember that the overwhelming feedback on being a male pornstar was negative, though.
     
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    Sounds like you are thinking the only thing for a guy who's well endowed is porn.
    Do porn because you want too, not because you think it's the only way you are going to get sex.
    I think you are lacking in self confidence. When you meet the right women the size of your penis isn't going to matter.
     
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    don't know a lot about being a porn star ,but I've always heard it's not as easy for a man to be one as it is for a women.
    women get paid a lot more then men do unless the man is a really big super star.
    a lot of men can't get it up and keep it up on demand and that's what they have to do.
    but you know a lot more about yourself then anyone here does.
    in real life I think you are worried about your size too much
     
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    Yeah..at this point there really only seems to be 3 truly successful and happy male pornstars, Peter North, Lexington Steele, and Ron Jeremy, and that's probably more due to their production success, and mainstream media crossover appeal, as opposed to their sexual prowess and equipment(though it doesn't hurt their causes.)
    That's very exclusive company that you have more chances of getting into the NFL, than joining, so I don't think it should be a career goal..In all honesty I don't think any male pornstar dating back to John Holmes actually aspired to be pornstars, it was just something they lucked up on.
     
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    thanks for the responses. something i was considering when i was sort of depressed and drinking. ive had such lbad relationships where i gave my heart away, only to be used, i feel like my worth is only as being a full body dildo sometimes. ive run into users and i dont know why i attracted such women. but i figure, this is my lot in life, might as well go all out. i know that pron isnt for me, but sometimes i wonder, what do i have to look forward too. i know that sounds horrible, but its how i feel and been feeling for a couple of months. it sucks. dont have much self worth at the moment.
     
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    Truth be told, a Dick like that will make more money doing Gay porn than straight porn. Maybe you need to give that a thought if you are looking to cash in on its size. Otherwise, the best you can hope for is BBC and Cuckhold vids.
     
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    Seems to me like you have some issues with self-value that need addressing. If that is true, then selling yourself (be it going into porn or whatever) is definitely not what you want to do. Being in/going into the entertainment business (be it Adult or otherwise) the whole thing is that the product that you are selling is you. If you don't value yourself, then you're going to sell yourself cheap (or not at all) and compromise who you are to meet your (false) perceptions of how others value/view you.

    Unless you are prepared for the potential outcome, know/love yourself, and know it would improve your life then I would say don't even bother trying to get into the entertainment industry. If you don't meet those three things I just listed, then any form of the entertainment industry will fuck you and not even bother to buy you a drink first or ever call you back.
     
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    It might sound like fun but you would soon realise it is just like prostitution; doing it for the money with folks you in all probability no want intimacy with normally.
    You are directed as to what and how you do it and for how long or short and made to do shit on demand that you would not dream of doing.
    Not a wise or desirable career move imho but each to his own!