I'll start. I had a crush on a girl at my job before I quit. I really, really had a crush on her, thought about her all the time, wished we could be together, and so on. She was not attracted to women. We became friends on facebook, and she was aware of my feelings for a long time. I would post a lot of status updates that were directed at her, but I was really cryptic. Looking back, I'm so embarrassed. Anyway, one time I wrote: At times we feel lost on the unending wave of the world. But it's okay. As long as I can feel your heart, beating against mine, nothing else matters. I don't think I understood how creepy that must have been to someone who had zero interest in me whatsoever. Yeah. She was nice and ignored it, but looking back it's pretty humiliating.