Things Our SO's Do That Piss Us Off

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  1. Kermit

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    but love them dearly and wouldnt' have it any other way

    My wife has this weird supervision that can see every clogged pore on my back and she proceeds to pinch them out which hurts like hell.

    Plus we have a disagreement with how she raises her daughter, I think she's far too permissive in her parenting which I feel feeds my stepdaughter's self-centeredness and laziness. She's a good kid and we've set enough limits to allow openness and know she's not gonna get into drugs or get knocked up, but my step daughter is a spoiled lazy and at times plain rude brat. And i worry she won't grow out of it sometimes.
     
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    lack of communication

    I'm guilty of it too and so every now and then it turns into a fight because one of us assumed the other one new something.. and we didn't - we're working on discussing things more now
     
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    Inability to confront.
    Example:

    Ian's done something to royally piss me off at the moment. He's currently sitting outside in the cold as that's where I yelled at him to go.

    After the initial shock of my anger wore off I asked him what the hell he was thinking and he looks at me like a dear in headlights. Doesn't say shit. 5 solid minutes, mouth agape eyes wide. He said NOTHING.

    That just makes me even more angry.

    His inability to TALK when it really matters makes me FURIOUS
     
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    You put the fear of God in dat boy i tells ya!
     
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    Definitely her temper. She's a very passionate woman so when something isn't perfect she can really flip out. That passion though makes her a great lover.
     
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    talk about Mad Love
     
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    Make up sex is the best!
     
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    Mittimer,

    I do the very same thing to my wife. I don't know why really. Some of it is me trying not to make things worse, sometimes I know I just don't have an excuse that makes sense so I know she'll be pissed off all over again if I try and explain. I don't now if this gives you any real insight or not, but your description of Ian sounds a lot like what I do when my wife is pissed at me. I mostly don't want to make it worse.
     
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    I'ts like being a deer in headlights, scared, not knowing what to say, if anythign would make it better or if it'd be worse.....
     
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    lol how he dosent wanna have a 4sum bc he doesnt want another dick in me!!!
     
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    yet i bet he's more than willing to put his dick inside someone else lol
     
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    yea he can but i cant ,, :yell
     
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    Double standards suck
     
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    her temper as well, shell get all pissy with me when i dont pay attention to her and ill take her crap until i cant anymore and then i get pissy my self, then shell stop and be all cute and nice expecting me to apologize...gets under my skin every time.
     
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    SO gets highly emotional and green with jealousy come ovulation time.
    Goes back into past things (even before her time) and accuses me of bad stuff.
    I tend to ignore it all which then incites her more until I get to the point of having enough and then tell her what for!
    Having gotten me riled then she turns all sweet and cute and can't understand what the problem is that stops us being lovie dove.
    It takes me hours to simmer down by which time she is convinced that I don't love her any more and tells me to find another.
    This stuff is as predictable as the night following day.
    Making up after is heaven tho'.
     
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    How selfish and thoughtless he can be. That royally pisses me off. No amount of discussion seems to fix this.
     
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    We have been dating and married long enough so that there is nothing that really pisses me off. I dated her long enough to see all of her habits, both good and bad, and went into marriage willing to tolerate the habits that I did not agree with.

    If there were one thing I would change about her, it would be that she be less of a pack rat. She has a very hard time getting rid of things, even way after their usefulness has past, and will sometimes hang onto things saying "I'm going to get this fixed/repaired". Several years later she will still be saying that. She does recognize these tendencies and will allow me or her friends to help her sort out what is needed vs. what should be throw out or given away, but it is still difficult for her, to the point where she sometimes cannot be around when we are doing that type of house cleanup. I have seen the reality show "Hoarders", and while she is not at that state, I do see characteristics in her that could lead her down that path, particularly if something happens to me.
     
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    my wifes temper will not allow her to admitt that even she can be occasionally wrong.
    and if i persist in banging on about im right etc etc,
    theres no sex for me, i go on the waiting list untill my wife fells like iv been punished enough,
    that only cause,s more fireworks because i cant go without sex for more than 4 days.
    but of couse she is aware of this and just blanks me,
    i start to get the hump as most good men do,
    more arguments, never ended
    so thats why my wife is never wrong even when she is wrong,
    because im the only one who suffers,:yell
     
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    when he sends me forwards but doesn't want to answer regular texts from me

    grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
     
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    Poor communicate and moodiness.