Well... ok, here is the weekend story. Thursday night She called me on the way home saying how stressed and tired she was. I offered to fix her a nice bath, have dinner waiting, and take care of the kids. She gets home, won't let me help with the boy. She doesn't eat until he's asleep. then she refuses to accept the bath I prepared for her. Friday. Nothing. come home, eat, go to bed. I try to be intimate... rejected. Saturday. I wake up with the kidd-o I clean the kitchen, do some laundary, and pick up the living room... all while she sleeps in. about 11-AM We go shopping (groceries) I try to be intimate while kidd-o is taking a nap... no go. I cook dinner on the grill for us. I put the kid down to bed. I try to be intimate again... rejected. we go to bed. I try again... rejected. Sunday She knows I have to run to office for a few hours at 2-ish I wake up again with kidd-o I pick up more of the living room. I do more laundary. I prepare lunch. kidd-o goes down for nap. I wake her up with kisses and touches at around 10 (kidd-o still asleep.)... rejected. I head to work and return around 6-PM I cook dinner again. put the kid down. try to be intimate again... rejected. we go to bed. I try again... somewhat receptive but she is just laying there. then she gets upset because I ask her what she wants. what she would enjoy. frustration in her voice... mood is gone... I roll off her (only foreplay thus far) and turn out the candle and go to sleep. She says she loves me. but all I see is her taking advantage of every thing I try to do for her. and I'm constantly rejected any affection and intimacy. Do you think she may be cheating on me? taking a "long lunch" or not really be "working late"? Her supervisor (of who'm she's really friends with) has cheated on his wife with others in her office in the past.... am I just being paranoid?