.....the sex talk...... :S?

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  1. jamesscot2112

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    me and my girl are like really in love, like i'm really serious about this one.. never been serious bout another girl in my life.

    but heres the problem, i cant talk to her about sex, i feel awkward and like cant speak about fantasies or anything... but the thing is with other girls that are just my mates, it all comes naturally and i can like talk dirty for the whole country..

    i think its got something to do with love and respect....

    but any tips or advice please? greatly appreciated =]


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    Don't sweat it, my wife is the same way. We both have frequent mid blowing sex, but she doesn't like to talk about it much either. She's still a tiny bit insecure about her sexuality, and talking about fantasies and specifics can be misconstrued as criticism, lead to expectations of her performance, or begin to arouse her when she's not ready. She's getting better about it, but I stick to infrequent generalities, especially outside the bedroom.

    I talk about specifics on this forum.