So there is a new show on tv called The Sex Box, basically couples who are having sexual issues sit with the three hosts all sex therapist to discuss what is troubling their sex life. Once they figure out the root problem they send them into the "the sex box" where they go in and get intimate and focus on the advice given to them by the therapist. Once they come out they discuss what went on inside. I bring this up because I myself have been in a almost sexless relationship for some time now. Long story short we have been together for over 4 years first two amazing sex life the last two not so much with sex maybe once a month. I had basically given up and told my fiancé this. This got better for a week and of course dropped back off. But I began to watch this show kinda like my own therapy and my fiancé decided to join me in watching the other day. Since she has watched I think she started to understand that this is not healthy for our relationship and she is starting to get the hint but it coming from professionals really makes it sit in. Since talking about it and watching we have been having sex more than twice a week which is a huge improvement. So what I'm trying to say is that if you are having a similar problem or your sexual relationship with your partner is not going well watching this show together could be a form of therapy for the two of you.