[Ask a Guy] The psychology behind spitting

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  1. Slipikins

    Slipikins New Member

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    What are guys thinking when they spit in a girls face during sex?

    I have my owns thoughts on this but would like to know other reasonings before I taint the answer pool. :)
     
  2. Dougie

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    I have never Spat on a girls face.. Personally I think it's degrading but wouldn't judge others if that's their thing and she is comfortable with it.
     
  3. Sexyforhim

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    I totally get it. There are some nights I want to be made love to, some nights I want to be fucked and some night I want to be treated like a dirty little slut lol I have on at least to occasions ask my husband to spit in my mouth while pulling my hair and hammering me hard. Lol maybe its just me.
     
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    Spitting on her face? I have never seen that in porn. I can';t imagine doing it for real.
     
  5. Sexyforhim

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    I guess u just have to be in the moment. And have someone that likes it lol.
     
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    hmmm...I was hoping to hear from guys who would actually do this sort of thing. I understand sexyforhim and the whole "dirty slut" thing. I have plenty of fantasies that entail this. I just have a hard time understanding the part of spitting in someone’s face that you supposedly care about. For some reason it just crosses a line for me.

    I’m not saying it’s bad or wrong or anything of that nature. I just really wanted to know what the turn on is and what the person is thinking when they do it.
     
  7. Sexyforhim

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    it took my husband a while to get use to it but now when i ask he dosnt hesitate. But when i am in my dirty slut mode it goes way beyond what most guys think of. I like to be slapped not to hard but hard enough to really feel it i like being choked called filthy names told im worthless and just a nut rag.....i know i know i am crazy but when i am in that mode im in it
     
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    I don't even like the way they are spitting on pussies and cocks in porn. Maybe I'm sounding like a prude. I swear I'm not :)
     
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    I like to be spat on when I want to be dominated. And seems they do it to feel dominant, so it works out well.
     
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    nah, I would never do it. The most Ill do is spit on some vagina lips but even then that has never happened yet
     
  11. Dragon_Fire

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    Spitting during sex is something I've never encountered and I hope I never do.
     
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    I don't get it!?
     
  13. Sexyforhim

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    A girl after my own heart. :D
     
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    If she is into it.. why the hell not? I would smear cream cheese on her ass and fuck her like a bagel if it makes her cum.. it doesn't matter to me.
     
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    Good man.
     
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    I asked a very specific question and that was...What are guys thinking when they spit in a girls face during sex? It's not questioning the use of spittle in other forms or on other body parts or even if women like it. I wanted to know what makes a guy want to do it. I have seen, read, and experienced enough about women liking to be degraded. Even the women that answered didn't comment on having their faces spat on. One mentioned in the mouth and the other one made a generalization.

    If I was going to generalize then I love it when a guy spits on my asshole before using his dick to fuck it inside me. I love mixing our spit and juices and tasting it off his dick as a form of punishment. I also like it when he rams his cock down my throat making me choke and when he removes it, I love seeing his shaft is covered in my spit. However none of that was the point.

    Thanks anyway…
     
  17. GB1

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    For me its a total domination thing. Let her know that I truly am thinking so little of her that I spit on her. I've never done it to someone who didn't want it though. But its just an empowering thing I guess. Sexyforhim and I have spent some time together and she's into that and I'm more than happy to oblige but I know that it has to be that kinda night for it to happen.
     
  18. Sexyforhim

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    I was wondering when u were going to chime in GB1. LOL I miss u.