The "Other" Orgasm...

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  1. CutiePie25

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    The other night I decided to surprise my SO. So I donned my brand new very pink teddy (I never wear pink), and grabbed the new vibrator he bought for me. I've never used a vibrator by myself so this was a big step for me and something I knew would blow him away. :brow So, I'm laying on the bed pleasuring myself and he walks in and near 'bout passes out from shock. Pretty soon thereafter I've got him on the bed with me and I lay him down and sit on his face. Well, I have never had a clitoral orgasm before. I am multi orgasmic, but I have only ever had g-spot orgasms due to my very sensitive clit. I usually can't stand to be eaten out for more than a minute or so. So while oral is fun, its usually just a primer for more foreplay and fun for him. The other night changed Everything! I had a mind-shattering clitoral orgasm!! It was so amazing, I had always heard/read about how different they feel from g-spot orgasms, but never realized just how awesome they are! So anyway... just wanted to share! :D
     
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    Wow, I'm gobsmacked! I have never heard of a woman that only had g-spotters and never clitoral screamers.

    Congratulations on your first clit climax. :cool

    So, what do you like better?
     
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    I would have to say the g-spot. Its deeper and I can feel it throughout my entire body, head to toe. :) Also, I can have multiples, I can have one clitoral and thats it. The clitoral was fun and I can't wait to do it again, but its a once a night kinda thing. :)
     
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    I truly envy you. I've only had a couplethree g's and they were pretty mild compared to my c's. Those suckers can almost make me pass out, at times.
     
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    I definitly don't take for granted that I am. My SO has never been with anyone like me and he loves it. Before I met him I didn't know a whole lot about my sexual self b/c I was really uniformed. He's opened me up to a whole new world and its absolutely amazing. :)
     
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    That's fantastic! Good for the both of you! :tup
     
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    Good for you! I love clitoral and G's, but G's are harder for me to acheive, and clitorial is easy and multiple! Any tips on the G for me? I am glad you were pleasuring yourself. It is always a big turn on for a man to see that, and now you can wail away at yourself if you need to.

    Thanks for sharing!!
     
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    A simple comMANt here ladies:

    With a good Mindset, <-(that doesn't well express)
    anyway, a 'handjob' with a partner who has dexterity of
    hands, good MANipulation technique, etc.
    Can cause a 'dual':D G+Clitty to 'O'cur! by
    working the G w/fingers & clitty simultaneously
    w/thumb and/or other clit attention. Having 'multiples'
    has another paradigm IOW. :) Sometimes:
    CombO Of bOth types at same time can be sO *Intense,
    And whOle bOdy envelOping;
    it cause a bit of cramping, but still wOrth a try
    for thOse who haven't yet. :cool
     
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    Flirty...

    I honestly have no idea how I can achieve multiple g-spot O's. Before I met my SO I just assumed everyone could do it, I had no idea that a lot of women couldn't. :uhh: Heck, I had never even seen a dildo or vibrator before he came into my life... :eek

    Sorry I can't be of more help. :ugh
     
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    Does anyone understand a word this guy says?
     
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    I have only been with a couple of women that could orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Most would have been dead jealous of those that could.

    (as for top dom, I just ignore his posts now :eyes)
     
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    My wife has never had a g-spot O. She loves the feel of full penetration but just can't climax that way. When I'm ready to cum she just touches her clit for a few seconds and away she goes. They are so intense I have trouble staying in the saddle.
     
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    Nope, and I've given up trying. :ugh
     
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    Don't be sorry, sweetie. I am just glad that you are able to, and now you have had clitoral as well!! Pleasure is great, no matter how you get it! :brow
     
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    Not one word. I just skip him.
     
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    *Clears throat and prepares to translate previously mentioned gibberish*

    My comment on what he said: NO SHIT SHERLOCK! Now, as for being able to understand his post, should I be worried that I understood what he was saying?
     
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    NOW, for a real post from me.

    Congratulations girl! I also didn't know that there were women out there that could attain a g-spot orgasm but not a clitoral one. There's something for the "Have you learned anything" thread. It's good that you were willing to experiment, otherwise you may never have had one. Hope everything turns out well in your second attempt at one, whenever that should happen.

    And Flirty, if you read this, I don't have any links or anything like that available, but there are certain positions that make g-spot orgasms easier to achieve. Unless you've already done so I'd suggest a little research into the matter, but I must warn you (as I don't know how bendy you are), many of them require a good bit of flexibility.
     
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    Congrats on the clit O :tup
     
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    Flirty,

    If you're looking for a position which might help you achieve one, the best one we have come across is me laying on my back with a pillow under my hips and him on his knees facing me with him holding my knees close to my head... When we do that he laughs at me cause my eyes roll back in my head. :lol

    Hope that helps! :)
     
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    Thanks for the tip. I must try it soon...BD are you listening?????:dgrin