The nicer the guy, the smaller the penis?

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  1. bt1257

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    I hear that its pretty common for men with a small penis to be very nice to women as opposed to men with a huge penis that can treat women any way they feel. Is there any truth to that?
     
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    Well i guess it can be a form of compensation for small guys, but at the same time, sometimes a large penis can go to a guys head
     
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    I'm a nice guy and I'm ok in that dept.. So for me that Myth is Busted! lol..
     
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    never seen any studies on that one. Usually it's more tied to confidence, the less of it, the "nicer" the guy. I have a friend, we refer to him as needle dick the bug fucker and he treats women like crap..and has been married multiple times...for cheating. I don't know it penis size and niceness correlate.
     
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    Yeah, I would be tempted to call BS on whoever first sprouted that theory. In my experience, guys with little dicks tend to have smaller than average genitalia, while guys who are big dicks tend to be less empathetic than average.
     
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    Well, I think on avarge is more likely to find men with smaller dicks that are nicer than huge dicked dudes. The reason is that it just makes sense to me. Somehow a small penis has to compensate his lack of size with other things.

    More importantly, it is meaningless to have a huge dick if you don't know how to use it, or if you use it poorly. A nice fuck has little to do with penis size. It is much better to be avarage on size but to have a nice and developed sex psychology. Sex is, mainly, within the mind.
     
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    That's just plain hogwash right there.

    Don't believe everything you hear, if it smells like bullshit, it probably is.
     
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    I second that.
     
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    I 'm sure it's true about the smaller guy being nicer, to a point.
    If he gets hooked up with a cheater, he's likely to give her a lot of slack since he doesn't want to lose her on suspicion, alone.
    At the same time, if he finds out she's been cheating and they split, you can bet your ass that she won't tell people how"nice he was", and it's likely any other women who come along in his life won't be saying it, either.
     
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    I fail to see the logic in that. Wouldn't a "smaller" guy have somewhat of a chip in his shoulder? and in fact be less nice.....and drive a Porsche or Mustang.
     
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    im the nicest guy on the planet and im nowhere near small so im calling bullshit
     
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    I'll second that too.

    I really do just find this all bs to be honest. My husband, who has an average member but is very confident in his abilities and size by no means is an asshole. He's likely one of if not the nicest guy you'll ever talk to.
     
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    Well there is always truth to stereotypes. I know 2 guys but 1 in particular that always brags to everybody thats he's huge. He has a oversized ego and treats women like shit. He will also try and fuck any girl he can like a dog and dump them when he gets what he wants. He has married for money and when he got it, he divorced her. He will even try and steal your gf with no man code sense. I ahte those guys.

    I consider myslef a very nice guy but I think I am slightly above avg in penis size dept. Being nice attracts other kinds of girls.. better girls IMO. I think what you are trying to get at is men that 'respect' a girl. By this I mean not respecting a womans rights or biology, but respecting them by not being aggressive and not looking at boobs or treating them like women.

    Good example: my (almost 27 y/o virgin) friend went to a strip club. This is in MD mind you with pussy all in his face and said he didnt touch or look because he respects women..
     
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    The attribute which often attracts women is confidence, and having a large penis does boost your sexual confidence. This means you may attract more women, and studies tell us that men with large penises have more sexual partners. That does not, in the slightest, infer that you treat those women badly. I've had a lot of sexual partners, as have a few others on this site, and what I found was that the experience of many one night stands and friends with benefits meand that I got better at forming meaningful relationships in a very short space of time. The best sex happens when you like someone, even if it is just once-off.

    The only correlation I know of in regards to penis size is the size of the man himself. That is, slimmer and usually shorter men have a greater chance of being well-hung, and tall and especially fat men are less likely. This is due to testosterone: high levels of testosterone at initial puberty does lead to larger penis size, and if this stays then it means the male is slimmer rather than fatter, and probably shorter because of an early puberty. I read a study somewhere but I also have anecdotal evidence from a couple of escorts I knew in a social sense who had sex with thousands of men, and guessed that I would be well-hung on the basis of my build (small men pack a surprise and big men are a disappointment was one's comment).
     
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    HA HA HA HA HA HA ROTF

    Another BS myth. I am slightly more than average and treat people nice.
     
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    This theory makes some sense. Just for the record I hit puberty laaaate. I think it was the summer before 10th grade that I finally got some man hair. I am also 6 foot 5 inches with a slightly above avg size (length more than girth). I have noticed in porns and always wondered why it is that heavier man have shorter penises..
     
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    I started puberty at age 11 and ended up 7" length by 6.5" girth, which is top 10% and top 1% respectively. I am 53 and about 4kg heavier now than when I was 18, and my testosterone (total and free) is about average for a 25 year old. I almost certainly had astonishing testosterone when I was younger, and the above average now for a man my age has a lot of benefits beyond my sex drive (more muscle / less body fat, more energy and so on).