The longest you went without in a relationship

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  1. AGFUNK

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    What is the longest amount of time you went without sex when you were in a relationship?
     
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    Ouch

    I'd say 2--3 months? Didn't track it. I'm sure my ex knows though
     
  4. biker061

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    went 8 months in a marriage once, and stayed married, too. now if its more than two days one of us just attacks the other :p and i feel very lucky to have found mrsbiker!
     
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    About 4 years or so. Waaaayyyy too long, I know that!:(
     
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    Coupla months, late stages of pregnancy & recovery period,
     
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    I remember after heart surgery the nurse came in and talked to my first wife and I. She said " I know you are both anxious for me to answer a question and the answer is yes." We looked at each other quizzically and she said "Yes, you can resume sex anytime you want to." She left pretty soon so I looked at my wife and asked "Well, do you want to have sex now, or wait 'till we get home?" She got really, really pissed about it. We hadn't had sex for a couple of years before hand. This was in 2008 and she died in 2011. So I guess about five years is more accurate.
     
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    Before marriage a little more than a year, but that was due to use being in different countries at the time, and still having strong enough feelings for each other that we did not pursue available options.

    Since marriage no more than a month, when I was on an assignment that my Bunnie couldn't visit me due to our expenses and work schedules.
     
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    6 months I think o_O
     
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    3 months - he was training across the country. We had skype-sex a few times but I doubt that counts.
     
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    I held out for about 6 months before I had to do SOMETHING or go insane. :)
     
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    2 months in my previous relationship. Then we broke up fucked like crazy one last time and said goodbye. Weird how that went.
     
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    14 months - 7 months in hospital, then 7 months when I could hardly stand let alone anything else.
     
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    WOW, mrsbiker (although she wasn't mrsbike yet) gave me a BJ in the cardiac unit three days after my heart attack.
     
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    Any amount of time is too long, hehe. For me it was 4 months =(
     
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    Define relationship. Actively dating one person or marriage? or someone you just fucking? If sex is the only determining criteria, about 2 weeks. Dating steady or married, about 5 yrs.
     
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    Any kind of monogamous relationship.
     
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    3 months no sex
     
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    Monogamous, about 5 yrs, always had 2 to 6 girls going at once. Wasn't till I met my wife that I settled down to one. Yes, I was a man whore.
     
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