when i first heard of froyd's theroy of women fantay's of rape,i thought it was mere speculation, then i had a chance to talk to a japanease 23 year old who had such a fantasy. although it was "just" a fantasy i tried to convice her that it was illogical and a contradication, i know that fantasy is something that should not happen in reality (usually) but this is not like getting nailed by aliens. the very basic idea behind rape is the fact that a woman doesn't want it. and the fantasy is something you want. so therefore, how can you want not to want ? if you want it, it's not rape, if you don't want it, why think about it?