So before I explain my question, I'd just like to say sorry for fading away from this board almost as soon as I signed up. I had computer issues for awhile, and after I got it fixed recently I was out of the habit of logging on here. Now I can post here more often. Before you read my long post, just know that this question is for anyone but could be best answered by a girl currently between the ages of 18-21. If you're 31, 41, 61, a guy...feel free to answer, I just say 18-21 because I want to know how the modern-day young chicks feel about this. I'm 19 and starting college next month , at a community college. While I'm of course looking forward to the academic/career/life opportunities there, I'm of course also looking forward to something else - girls. As much as I'd love to meet the love of my life, I realize those things don't happen fast. :lol But I really want to meet and interact with girls there, since it's a diverse school with plenty of girls and all (holy hell, I sound like a polite version of Motley Crue). Now, the thing about me is that I'm a virgin. But not only am I a virgin, I have never even held hands with a girl. The most contact I've had was kind of putting my arm around this girl's waist/butt. So yeah, I'm a super virgin. I've been a recluse for the past 18 months. Whenever I do go out, it's me by myself. I lost contact with nearly all friends. So I'm really starting over at college. I'm now becoming intimidated that I don't have enough experience with the ladies. I'm worried that none of 'em will like me in the first place. I'm worried if I do get in bed with one I will be so lame at sex that they'll think I'm a joke. Which contradicts who I am, a very sexual person. I don't want to date/bang/marry some prude that doesn't like sex. That's not for me. As you could guess by me being on this site. So what do you guys think? Will girls freak out when they find out that I'm not only a virgin, but haven't even kissed a girl? Will they even need to know beforehand...or will it be obvious? Guys usually think I'm some kind of ladies' man but that's probably a different story.