Everyone has their own comfort when it comes to sexual activities. In the U.S. we tend to be hypocritical about our views towards sex (lets say compared to Europeans) There is one group that is quite open and free in their thoughts about sex. The other end of the scale we have those that follow a more puritan view. Of course neither is wrong, but we tend to run into trouble on a few different levels. - First one one side tries to change the views of the other. Usually its the puritan side imposing their morals upon others. - You then have those that are in the middle so caught up not knowing that there really is no right or wrong. This is the group that gets stressed out about sex. A certain amount of desire, a certain amount of restrain, a push-pull emotional roller coaster. Now you can imagine what the middle group then runs themselves into. A stressful relationship wrapped up with a lack of communication causing a lot of frustration. Does it not seem that we need to somehow relax about the very thing that mother nature has instinctively included as part of our DNA?