I've been fooling around with a friend of mine - I'm a virgin, and haven't done anything with a guy apart from a couple bad attempts at hand jobs. He's clearly a lot more experienced - I've not told him about my lack of experience, though I think at this point he suspects. Anyway, he's fingered me a lot and gone down on me a few times, but I haven't reciprocated (apart from those attempts at hjs) because I'm scared I'll be terrible at it and I feel really bad about it. I know that what I should do is just tell him that I don't have much experience and maybe ask him what he likes, but my problem is... I don't know when to bring this up? We don't really mention the physical side of our relationship when we're not hooking up so it would be during the hook-up and I worry that it would be a massive turn off for me to suddenly be like, 'hey, I don't have much experience?' Is there any way I could bring it up that would still be sexy? If you were fooling around with a girl and she said this, would it be a turn off?