A while ago i had asked of the ladies why my S.O. enjoyed intercourse far more after an orgasm than before, i got a lot of great and agreeable responses. To date that is still the case, her first [well i really like doing it so i can't really say "her" first]. Anyways, my question is along the lines of trying to satisfy her more without the above, say during a quickie hop in the sack before leaving for somewhere where it just happens suddenly without the time to really get into things. Intercourse for us basically consists usually of me from behind and on our sides [spoon?] because she says it is comfortable and feels safe and close. I don't think i'm that great at it as it's pretty much just the standard in and out in and out. i'm trying to figure out what i can do to enhance things for her, I've heard that from behind adds a lot more "g" spot stimulation but without her being very excited to start off with i don't think i do very much in that sense. What concerns me is when we do most of the time she pretty much is just lying there and i begin feeling i'm more of a nuisance than a pleasure. She will say calmly that it does feel good but after about 3-4 minutes will do anything humanly possible to get me to cum. She is quite good at it. Any help with this would be great, i am being vague i know but i'm completely lost. Vibrators or manual stimulation are out of the question during intercourse, been there tried that rejected very quickly. I have noticed one thing recently at least, it's almost like providing more and more as we go on, i notice she doesn't try anything to make me cum either. It's basically only going in about half the length and just doing that for 5-10 minutes, as she starts trying to do stuff with me [which i take as her getting bored] i start going all the way in. Instantly she stops what she is doing the "you feel really good"'s start and off we go". I have never once even come close to getting her to orgasm during this. I get a lot of moans and slurring of words, but no orgasm. It may not be possible, wether because of my ability or not. I'm curious what everyone likes in a quick hop in bed situation. is there a common thing everyone likes. i.e. fast vs slow thrusts, girth, longevity, position or even what method for a favourite position. Again sorry for being vague and running on a little bit, sure this could be summed up in about 3-4 lines but i just basically typed what i was thinking. Thanks again for the help all I have searched the technique's and understand there are probably threads on this, i am focusing on pretty much the quickie type of things with basically wowing her during the short frame of time we would have. I'd love to be able to make her want more when we get back from where we have to go.