Tears....

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  1. CreamyJustice

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    I was going to post this for the women.....but then I might need the guys to answer too....

    Ladies: have you experienced crying during sex?

    Gents: have you experienced your lady crying during sex?

    I know it sounds horrific, lol.....i swear it isn't...lol. just needing some light shed on its occurence. Is it an overwhelmence (is that a word?:() of emotion being brought to the surface? Why do you think that is?

    And what was your reaction to it?
     
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    I have never experienced it. It seems to me that since sex includes the physical, the spiritual, and the emotional, it is like an information overload and causes the tears. Again, just my thoughts.
     
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    Once when I thought I was ready but I wasn't. I said yes, no pressure. He was pretty good about it.
     
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    Doesn't sound horrific to me. Crying after orgasm is a known thing. I've done it. It's a wonderful release after the wonderful release, though it confused the boyfriend.

    Crying during sex? I've never done that. The only time any of my friends have told stories about crying during sex was because it was hurting.
     
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    Yes @CreamyJustice I do believe it is an "overwhelmence" of Emotion brought to the surface and released.

    I have experience Crying during (pleasureable) sex a handful of times or so. And there were other times I realized that I was starting to "cry" and stopped myself as I didn't want to freak my husband out.

    I believe that @_lookin4fun_ described it very well. It's a mix bag of Emotions of physical, mental and spiritual release as well as it being an Orgasmic emotional release at the same time.

    Why/What makes this occurrence happen....idk....other than it's just that the Woman is just really wearing her emotions on her sleeve, so to speak, and the Love Making and Passion are at it finest and it all just comes out.
    It really is a Beautiful thing to experience.
     
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    Not from sex or orgasm but probably just as intense; I cascaded tears the moment I summited my first Himalayan peak.
    Was it relief, happiness, reaching a normally unattainable goal,.....dunno?
    Probably those and much more but "overwhelmence" certainly suits :)

    Certain music can do it too but that is more due to mood I think.
     
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    First, congrats on that accomplishment! I bet it felt good when u got to the top... how long did it take? Did u ever want to quit?

    And I agree about music. Instruments too. The electric guitar solos in songs always does something to me.
     
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    I always have cried during/after sex... Tears of gratitude to the women good enough to martyr themselves and make the sacrifice of allowing me to defile them. :p
     
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    Lmao. ....another willing volunteer huh? It must shock you, lol
     
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    sex is an emotional thing as well as physical. The time after orgasm is possibly te best time ever when two people who love each other can express their feelings. Yes I hve cried after the experience and been deeply affected by the sight of a partner in tears. It is part of being human.
     
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    Every time I have to think to myself, "Will wonders never cease?" :)
     
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    Yes several times. I actually tried to make them cry....emotional release for her/them. The orgasm brought it on. But gotta be ready to console & comfort them properly or DON'T do it....not fair if ya don't comfort them.
     
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    I've cried before. Mainly because it was just an overwhelming experience. Good, but overwhelming nonetheless.
     
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    The short answer is that I was cried on before and it was one of the greatest sexual experiences of my life. For her, it was a matter of having a million different feelings going through her at once and after everything that led her and I together, well, we are still great friends.
     
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    Honestly the only time a woman has cried during sex with me is because it was hurting a bit and for some reason she didn't want to tell me it was. When I figured it out I felt like garbage , I stopped and did my best to tell her I am sorry and tried to understand why she didn't say anything. Another time was because I was having some " issues " maintaining an erection and of course she thought it was because I didn't think she was attractive ( completely not the case) .

    In both instances I felt stupid , and still to this day in can affect me and my confidence.
     
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    It happened to me twice. After sex. Don't know why, maybe the intensity of the sex made it happen...
     
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    The first g-spot I gave my ex, she cried. Not bawling but tears.
     
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    I've cried - not counting the tears of frustration through deeply I satisfying sex!
    I've cried before & I had no inclination it was going to happen. It just did. It was pretty intense sex & with someone I felt a real emotional connection to. The orgasm was pretty amazing - about as close as I've got to the earth moving!! I do think it's that combination of an emotional & physical release & I felt so much better because of it.
    I crave moments like that just because it felt so complete
     
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    Yes I have cried,Having someone who can make your emotions go crazy during sex is a wonderful thing,I was made to feel so beautiful and sexy during xo
     
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    No, but If Johnny Depp was fucking me I might cry :)
     
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