Talking Dirty?

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  1. vulgar_love

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    My partner said that he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I really don't know how to do that...I don't know what guys want to hear. Keep in mind that he is not the dominate one either. I would like to know if anyone could suggest a few things to me to do on this. ^_^ Thank you.
     
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    Just try a few different words if you fancy the idea, if it works and it turns you on too, just push the boundary further each time. It's for sure that you know most of the necessary words at your age and how to join them up?

    It does absolutely nothing for me, but I'm a boring old fart anyway.
     
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    Well, it just seems like everything I think of saying sounds extremely stupid to me...I get kind of embarrassed when I do it...but I want to do it because he wants me to. Of course I know the dirty words and such, but it just seems a little weird.
     
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    If you think it's weird and don't enjoy doing it, tell him that you prefer to hear nice words whilst making love and get him round to your way of thinking.
    You women hold most of the cards, so tell him girl!
    Maybe he'll change for the better.
     
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    XD I doubt he'll change, but I'll keep trying until I can get it right. If I can't...well then. I guess he's just SOL. ^_^
     
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    If he can't be bothered to see it from your angle................................
     
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    Girl please....it aint that hard to satisfy them. :p
    Just throw around the words pussy, cock, and fuck me harder, a lot. You don't even have to make sense most of the time. I think they just like to hear the dirty words spoken by their hot women.
    Good luck and let me know how it goes. :brow
     
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    Well, this might be easier than I thought if I don't even have to make sense...XD

    I'll see how it goes.
     
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    The Mistress is right, IMO. My wife & I are the opposite. She's the one that likes to talk dirty, and tries to get me into it. I do love hearing all the naughty things she says (which don't have to make sense), and lately I've been joining her in it. Even though I feel self-conscience about it, I have to admit I'm beginning to like it. :eek:
     
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    Here.....these are easy ones....and the more of the dirty words in one phrase..the better. lol And put a little extra accent on the dirty words...that helps.
    I'm sure you will know (or learn) the trigger words that turn him on.


    My pussy is so wet for your hard cock, come fuck me with it now!
    Your cock feels so good to my pussy, fuck me harder.
    Your cock has my pussy screaming for it. I need your dick inside me.

    You get the idea. :tup
     
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    Mistress, you amateur! Here's how it's done.......

    Ohhh, I want you to suck my tits hard, oh yeah, that's it baby, suck them hard, make them hurt, oh yeah, pinch that tit, pinch it, pinch it! You get me so hot when you work my tits hard, oh, hurt me baby!

    Please baby, let me suck your cock. I want to feel your hot rod deep inside my throat baby, oh yeah, choke me with that big cock. I ache to feel your hot cum pour down my throat. Oh yeah, baby!

    Ohh, my pussy is so wet for you, I need your cock inside of me now baby, NOW, please baby, give me that hot cock. Oh baby, ram it inside of me, make me feel it so deep baby, sooo deep. Yeah, yeah, that's it, give it to me hard, baby! You know I like it hard, oh yeah, and deep, baby!

    Oh, oh, oh! I love the feel of you as you pound into me baby! I want you to cum, I want you to cum baby! Oh baby, please don't shoot your load into me, I want to see it, to taste it baby!............................

    (shit, I just came a little writing that!)
     
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    Very well done C.L.
    I think I came a little just reading it.
     
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    I love when my guy talks dirty to me.He does more of it than me,but I do it back too.You just kinda got to go with the flow.Just say what comes natural and don't get embarrassed.It is fun.
     
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    All i said to a guy once was "oh yeah baby" and he went crazy....lol

    If you dont wanna use too many profanities and sound like a porn star..you could breathe heavily in his ear and say "ooh yeah baby that feels sooo good...mmm....yeah...keep doing that to me, oh god yeah...oh i love you baby, give it to me good, give it to me hard, faster, slower, faster slower....hmmm...yeah deeper, deeper...oh that is so good...oh god...etc etc etc...

    I love dirty talk....really love it very much....i would use much stronger words than what I typed, but didnt wanna scare you..!!!!

    Its awesome when you are with another who gives the same back...

    I love that...calling each other names like whore and slut and bitch....one man called me woman a lot..i loved that...especially when he breathed heavily inbetween his words...such a sexy one he was...

    Sex is a great way to channel all that pent up passion

    Isnt it?

    Oh yeah babeeeee :)
     
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    I think you need to know a little about his fantasies. Know what kind of porn he likes? Some guys like the feeling of power, so the "I love when your big, huge cock tears me up" works, while others simply want to know they are satisfying you. I suggest not making up stuff - say what you feel. Want it deeper? Tell him. Love when he goes slow? Match your voice and words to the rhythm you want. And if it feels good, moan, even if you need to be quiet (grab a pillow). It took me a little bit to get used to naughty words, but they do add to the intensity. "Feed my ravenous pussy" often gets a better result than a polite "I really enjoyed how you stimulated me vaginally, darling." But, again, know your man.
     
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    just to expand this question, what do ladies like to hear?

    I would like to talk dirty to my g/f and not sound stupid....=)
     
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    I am new to this as well! (as I am to most new sexual things >_>; )

    My boyfriend mostly does the talking. I add something maybe every once in a while, nothing too dirty or anything and dunno if he likes it or not (?). He told me he just really likes the sounds I make :eek:. Didn't know it sounded good, but according to him it's sexy and turns him on! haha yay! I get embarrassed at how noisy I am >_>; and try to hold back a lot actually. Trying to learn to control myself. So new to all this.

    Um..Snake21605, I guess as a girl I like it when my man says how much he wants me or how much I turn him on. And he mentions how me getting wet makes him want me more and such and its a turn on a bit. I still get embarrassed about things though. When I try to say things I feel foolish and feel I should just keep quiet. :lol
     
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    I think it depends on the girl. I believe we are more complex when it comes to what turns us on or off.
    Some girls like to hear reassuring things about their body, or sex skills.
    Some girls like to be dominated and told what to do and how to do it.
    Some girls like to hear sweet sentimental things.
     
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    I think I like a little of all three of the above! :D
     
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    So, Mistress, you seem to be pretty good at this. For a girl that's dominating her guy...what does she say? That's what I'm interested it. ^-^