Talk Dirty?

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    HisLilSecret New Member

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    A long time ago my boo asked me 2 talk dirty 2 him while we were going at it & for some reason my mind went blank! I can talk about sex with other people with no problem but I just clammed up when he asked me! I think it was because I was concentrating but Im also worried I might say something wrong so my question is what kinds of things would you like 2 hear your SO say in bed?
     
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    I love my partner talking dirty and telling me what she wants me to do! It's a real turn on!
     
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    when he puts me on the spot like that, I blank out too ;)
     
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    glad 2 know Im not alone :) by the way love ur pic!
     
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    I love it when my beau talks dirty to me but he's only done it once and i don't really have the confidence to instigate it myself. Eventually I hope that either he will try it again or I will build in confidence enough to let him know how much I want him :p
    E x
     
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    Glad to know i am not the only "blank" one out there. I will be checking out the
    Here are some good threads on the subject:

    http://www.sexualforums.com/24278-dirty-talk-;.html

    lhttp://www.sexualforums.com/28701-talking-dirty.html .....and let you know if it helps!
     
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    I wasnt able 2 view the 2nd link.
     
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    i hate being put on the spot, i can get pretty shy and just say something dumb but its a lot easier when there's no pressure. i actually started getting better at it when i would talk dirty to myself while masturbating and then say the same sort of stuff the next time we fucked lol

    i cant really tell you what to say since i'm not sure exactly what yall are into but you can start out with the basic 'dirty talk', asking him if he likes the way your tight pussy feels and you love feeling his cock throb inside you...etc etc
     
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    thats a really good idea thanks, Im gonna have to try that. It took me a long time to even moan during sex because I was so used to trying to be quiet. I guess that was from being young & trying not to get caught!
     
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    Haha you have no idea how much you sound like me :) I never moan during sex, in fact when I first started having sex I barely made a noise. I'm slowly getting more and more confident however and eventually I think I'll be able to move to the level where I can comfortably talk dirty to my beau :)
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    I think another factor that kept me quiet for years was the fact that most guys I had slept with were selfish lovers & didnt care if I got mine. To this day only 2 guys have been able to make me cum. I dont wanna have to tell a guy (especially a one night stand) what to do. Im sure this hurts me more than them, but im just shy i guess.
     
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    Well I LOVE dirty talk, just the rawness of it is a huge turn on for me. I wouldn't just put the woman on the spot like that though...yes I can see how that would make you go blank. Usually I would start the dirty talk myself or ease into it as things got hotter and faster. What makes it hot is when both partners get into it and it's spontaneous.
     
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    Wow sounds like alot of women have had this problem of selfish men!!???
    I have only had one man make me cum - and that was only a few years ago!! (I am in upper 30's now!)
    I had a really hard time talking dirty and knowing what to say until I starting checking out porn sites - read the titles, watch some clips, use your own fantasies in detail, even embellish it! I close my eyes and then can really get into it and almost make myself cum by talking dirty - making him watch and touch when I say - Have fun with it but make sure you are with the one you love, trust and won't reget annything you say or do! Never know if a camera is hidden and can be used against you. Good luck!
     
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    i am very orgasmic when he talks dirty to me, the minute he speaks such words to me, i respond almost instantly.