[Ask a Girl] Taking photos

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by Cigars, Jul 19, 2011.

  1. Cigars

    Cigars New Member

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    I've had a huge desire for my wife to let me take discreet photos of her giving me a hand job or blow job so I can jack off to them during the day. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can bring this up with her without her getting mad?
     
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    That all depends on her attitudes towards masturbation and porn in general. If she is open to some of this then you can just comment on how nice it would be to have a pic of her to accompany you when you are apart because you love only her and pics of other women just don't do it for you. If she is grossed out by the idea of porn and masturbation, well then you'll probably just have to close your eyes and imagine...
     
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    Well she knows I jerk off, and she likes watching me do it.
     
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    Shes you're wife, you should feel comfortable enough to be able to speak to her openly about sexual stuff.

    Simply ask her.
     
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    Then like I said. It should be in terms of how much you love her and how she turns you on. Don't try to manipulate her into it. That will only build resentment.
     
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    Exactly. My wife won't do it, she works in a sensative job, involved with the school system and our kids sports clubs, and is affraid the computer will get hacked or some way it will hit the net...wouldn't be good, but unless you keep the computer off the net...and the kids locked out, but I've got a teenager that can hack is way into a lot of stuff LOL.
     
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    Yeah dont be that guy that shows all his boys at work.
     
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    Communication is important so you should let her know of your interest. But do it in a friendly, non-pressure way - and if she is not interested, don't push things, just tell her you understand and don't want her doing it if she is not comfortable with it. Be patient, over time you never know. It was years before my wife consented to me taking pictures and videos, I never pushed it but as our relationship grew she saw fewer reasons not to try. The wait was well worth it.