Ok... This discussion has come up in my relationship. Just curious if I’m the only one. I'm almost incapable of taking my wife with authority. For some reason. I'm not comfortable being too authoritative. And taking her in a situation which you would almost classify as 'by force' I know many women enjoy this and even fanaticize about being 'taken' by a man. Am I the only guy who has an issue with it? It's not that I don't want to make her happy... I just feel bad when I am rough with a woman. yeah... I’m too much of a softie.