I was asked a question by another member about swinging. I searched the forum and while there have been several swinging topics, I thought I would start one. For those out there that currently swing in some fashion, what kinds of boundaries and rules do you have? I'll start. Our primary rule is complete openness. We tell each other everything about our experience, both good and bad. As for what we can/can't do, we really leave that to each others' discretion. In our limited experience, we have found that the best plans don't always work as initially thought out before the clothes come off.