Hi people. How do you let other people (men, women, couples) know that you are open to the idea of swinging? Is there any codes? Redhead came up with the idea of a pendulum bumper sticker or maybe a pendulum t-shirt with a picture of a pendulum and perhaps a couple covert words. You know "watch it swing", "feel the breeze", "what a ride", etc. 15 years ago a rainbow was just a rainbow. Now a rainbow sticker on a car means something else entirely. What's you ideas on this subject? Besides just the obvious thing like being overtly flirtatious, dressing and acting sexy, saying just the right thing, etc. Is there some kind of code? If it is an unspoken code, we definitely want to know. We want to participate. Still looking for the right person for MFM.