My girl and I are in a long-distance relationship(about 5 hours apart) , and we have been for a little over 3 years. Just recently, we've decided to try the swinger route to 1, relieve our own sexual frustration, 2, have some fun while we're in college, and 3 to get some outside experience. I haven't seriously flirted with a girl in probably 4 years, and I've certainly never done it with the motive of trying to have sex with them. Do you girls have any tips for trying to get a friend or aquiantance to be sex buddies? Theres a party on Saturday that I think I'm going to, and I'm gonna see if I can stir something up with someone. Thanks for any tips in advance.