Sweet, thoughtful things you do for so

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  1. HotForHoney

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    I have an "issue" where I don't like my silverware to touch the table at a restaurant.
    Last night Diesel and I went out to get sushi. They had cloth napkins on the table.
    He put his napkin in his lap, and opened his chopsticks. He then folded a piece of the wrapper, placed it near my plate, took my napkin, handed it to me and put my fork on the folded paper so I could have my napkin in my lap

    I thought that was very thoughtful and sweet.
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    Add yours... What do you do for SO? What do they do for you?
     
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    He sounds like a keeper. You are right that the little things can mean a lot. As for my wife and I, We spent last night at Macy's. She didn't want to be alone, while shopping for some clothes. It was the last place that I wanted to be but sometimes you do those things.
     
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    In my other relationship I would get her water boiling while she is in the shower, scrape her car in the winter, warm it up.
     
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    I love it when he brings me a cup of coffee while I'm getting ready in the morning. Also, sweet texts daily. :)
     
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    I almost always get gas for my wife's car. She hates doing that....and of course I am the spider killer. Lol
     
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    Does always putting the toilet seat down count?
     
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    Morning coffee
     
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    I absolutely hate laundry so once a week he does my laundry and folds (because he's OCD and thinks my folding is crap).
    I of course am the spider killer lol
     
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    I would make his lunches fresh every morning at 4:30am because I know I wouldn't like a soggy sandwich for lunch, so why should I make his the night before? It was the least I could do for a hard working man doing double shifts.
     
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    That is a list I could never finish.
     
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    It's a good list to talk about though. I find that these little things are the best foreplay.
     
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    I am up by at least 5:20 Monday - Friday to make breakfast and prepare lunch for my honey. If lunch needs made, I'll make it although I usually I just need to bag it as it was prepared the night before by my honey for both of us (something he does for me).

    He is an excellent cook BTW :) :p
     
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    To me one of the most special things, Is to catch him stealing glances at you as you do things as the day goes on..You catch him and he looks away fast..I think its adorable!
     
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    My GF works nights. I always wake up before she does, so I close the bedroom window so the obnoxious morning birds outside don't wake her.
     
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    My wife says I treat her better than anyone ever has in her life. Truthfully, I can't think of anything special I do for her. That doesn't say much for everyone else I guess. Perhaps this is a wake up call for me to START doing special things for her.
     
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    Taking a small bite out of the sandwich I packed him for later to eat ;)
     
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    I take a shower in the other bathroom when we are getting ready at the same time so that she can do her hair.
     
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    When ever we traveland are in a hotel I will get up and get dressed and go down and get her coffee preferably Starbucks.

    I always put the seat down.
     
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    I turn on the tv in the bedroom....get his coffee.....wake him up....while he is in the shower I make the bed and lay out his uniform....get his breakfast things out and ready.....make his lunch when he comes home......when he gets home from work I have him a cold glass of cola waiting for him.....cook dinner and usually fix his plate and take to him.....refill his glass when needed......I do all the housework and laundry and cooking. Send him texts during the day just to say Im thinking of him or I love him....if I go somewhere during the day I text or call him so he knows where Im going and with whom.
     
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