Swallowing

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  1. John99

    John99 New Member

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    Has anyone ever seen any studies on how common it is for women to swallow?

    Also, has anyone ever had a woman learn to do it?
     
  2. lummy

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    No...and learn to do it? I guess the only thing would be the dick positioning in the mouth so the cum doesn't squirt down your throat or make you gag? Not much to learn. you learn how to swallow an hour into birth. ;)
     
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    I don't know about how common it is, but my SO does it for me quite often.

    I don't think she learned how to do it any where I think she just kinda said hey I think I will swallow the cum, and then she did it.

    If you are trying to get a girl to swallow you just have to give her time to decide if she wants to do it or not, she knows how to swallow, I assure you,
     
  4. Bluesy

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    Would you swallow your cum? The golden rule of sex is "Never ask your partner to do something you aren't willing to do yourself." If you wouldn't do it, it isn't fair to expect her to!
     
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    In all fairness i think you should have asked, "would you swallow her cum" if he was willing ot do that i think that would be a fair equivilant
     
  6. Bluesy

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    No, sweets, it actually isn't because female lubrication and male ejaculate are worlds apart in taste and texture. I love tasting my lube, btw, and I'd gladly share my cum (assuming I can; I've never ejaculated) with a partner if he was into that sort of thing :)
     
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    i can see where your coming from with that but i was also talkaing about female ejaculate
     
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    Female ejaculate is also worlds apart from male ejaculate. Male cum is usually salty, somewhat bitter, and viscous. Female ejaculate is sweet and runny.

    Everyone should be willing to slurp up their own stuff as well as their partner's...It's actually pretty damn sexy! I would never date a guy who wanted me to swallow but wasn't willing to swallow his own cum. Either we both share the intimacy of swallowing (i.e. snowballing), or I don't go there. Fair is fair.
     
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    Cinnamon...I swear by it. Makes it taste sweet!
     
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    The problem with a me swallowing my own cum is that after I've ejaculated I've lost my interest in doing so. But I couldn't care less whether my partner swallows or not. If she wants to, that's fine. If not, that's fine too.
     
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    I agree with lummy a lot has to do with the positioning of the penis in her mouth when you cum. Tell her when you are ready and she can turn her head to shoot into her cheek instead of down her throat. That has worked with me for a few girls who were afraid to swallow because some guy before shot into her throat and gagged her.
     
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    My girl did that to me 'swallow it and i'll do it after' I did it but she never did it! lol!

    Asking that is an excuse usually I think.
     
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    God, I would love to snowball with my SO, it would probably make me cum again, however I know that she would think it was gay or something, don't get me wrong she is very open minded about a lot of things, but some things she just doesn't agree with, but what ever she is a big girl she can make up her own mind about things,

    As far as slurping down my own cum I have thought about it but have never gotten around to it, every time I think about it, I am close to cumming and just end up blowing my load

    But I think I my try

    And I agree with your earlier thread about fair/fair
    female ejaculation has a much sweetier taste than males
     
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    fair is fair, and now it is a normal part of our sexual encounter.
     
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    I can admit that porn has prolly programmed me into thinking that it is sexy, but in all honesty I can understand why women wouldn't, and I wouldn't ask a woman to unless she hinted that she would like to try it or already likes it (by some freak twist of fate).
     
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    my gf doesn't like it so i come elsewhere... i've just about managed to self-suck a few times before and I can't see a problem with it myself, we also snowballed once.... it was... interesting
     
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    I havn't met any girls who like it, although I reckon it would be pretty hot
     
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    I've done it a few times. It makes me gag though not sure if it's the texutre that gets me or the taste. Of course once that one gag gets itself out of my system then I'm ok. Go figure. I would try more though.
     
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    My ex-girlfriend used to let me cum in her mouth but would spit it out...She swallowed my load once tho but said never again she told me it tasted bitter and made her gag.
     
  20. Joseph S.

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    My gf absolutely hates it. We tried it once but she almost threw up lol. I think it would only be enjoyable if your partner looks like she's enjoying it. If she looks like she's about to gag it just takes the fun out of it.