The thread on "Super Bowl or Sex" got me to thinking of things my wife could do that would instantly get me ready. I asked my wife what things she thought she could do and her response was, "Wake you up." This is true because I never so no. She knows that if I am sleeping and she wants to have sex all she has to do is wake me. I once told her that a sure way to know if I wanted sex was to see if I was breathing. Awake, sleeping, it doesn't matter just as long as I'm breathing. Things I thought of that she can do were, when she doesn't wear a bra, when she wears stockings, if she kisses my neck, whisper something sexy in my ear and if she wears something low cut and keeps giving me peeks of her gorgeous tits. Then I started of thinking of things that I could do that would get her instantly in the mood. Sadly I couldn't come up with one thing! There are things I can do once we are having sex that she really likes (some of which are new things I learned on this forum) but there is nothing that I know I can do that would make me 100% sure that sex would follow. Before we were married and even after we were married before the kids came along it was pretty easy to put her in the mood. Now it's a totally different story. (That's another thread however) I would be interested to hear from others what works on them and what works for them.