Suggested toys for a "beginner" ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by alwaystry, Jan 9, 2014.

  1. alwaystry

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    I am looking for suggestions on sex toys for someone... here are the things to consider...

    She is in her 30s
    She use to use a lot of toys years ago but has had only one semi large realistic vibrating dildo that I hear she only used a couple times.
    She says she pretty much just kept the ones on her clit while she lay on her stomach and not really inserting.
    I am trying to spice things up a little so it will be a little bit of a surprise even though I have hinted towards this.
    She is sort of stand offish about anything new in the bed room.
    It can't be crazy expensive or too wild ( no shocker dp lol)
    Is iffy on receiving oral or "jabbing" at her with fingers.

    I have looked up all sorts of things on sites like adam and eve and on everything the reviews are all over the place and so is the quality and reliability. Just wondering if people had suggestions on what to try, their reviews,favorites, or things to stay away from.
     
  2. Silverfox

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    This wand is something suggest by pbs that I bought for Silverette, and it's been a resounding success. I finally know, after all these years, how to massage the inner part of her clit, that extends down on either side of her vagina, right behind the pubic bone. The spots are not very far inside. With this, she's learned what it feels like and can now have small orgasms from intercourse. It's pricey for what it is, but we've really had fun, and I don't believe you could break it:

    http://www.amazon.com/Crystal-Wand-Honeydipper-Deluxe-Clear/dp/B000PC9O9Q


    Anotherday suggested a Lelo bullet that I think I'm going to buy Silverette. She doesn't really like vibrators, but I want her to try this one. It's small and compact.
     
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    I always suggest the Lelo bullet.

    Yes, it is on the more expensive side but here's why.

    It is small, sleek, and attractive.

    It can be used as an insertable or for clit stimulation.

    It can be used remotely for two to have fun.

    It is rechargeable and holds charge for a long time.

    It is quite powerful for a small package.

    We bought ours via Amazon
     
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    Brookstone has a good selection also and they seem to last.
     
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    Lelo products whilst quite expensive are real quality and the texture is wonderful and they last and last despite heavy duty use.
    I have bought SO many other brands but always she prefers Lelo.
     
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    yeah lelo is great too.
     
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    You could always try a vibrating cock ring. It's great for both of you.
     
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    ive never tried a cock ring much less a vibrating cock ring. what is it like?
     
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    It's pretty awesome. Hubby likes cause it makes him harder. I like it because he likes it plus the vibrations with the thrusting is awesome. I like it better when I'm on top so it rubs my clit. Kind of like masturbating at the same time. They can be bought at target and such. There's lots of different ones, mostly got to go online. They wear out pretty quickly though and I haven't tried replacing the batteries on one.
     
  10. alwaystry

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    Any specific one? I looked at these on adam and eve.com but the reviews were all over the place.
     
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    Brookstone, is that a web site?
     
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    thanks im going to get one!
    Yes, it's also a store at some malls. It's set up a lot like Sharper Image used to be.
     
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    I don't mean to hijack the thread, but I didn't think my question warranted a new thread. We've been using the Lelo Ina for a couple years, and I fear it's nearing it's end (doesn't keep a charge very long).

    I may very well just buy another Ina, but I was wondering if anyone has a recommendation for an upgrade?

    I'd also like a recommendation for anal beads/toys (all for use on her).
     
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    Sorry I didn't answer you sooner. I completely forgot about this thread. I like the one that looks like it has fire on it. I'll get the exact name and get back to you.

    ^You should really make your own thread.
     
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    Hooray for Lelo!

    There's a website called sexinfo101.com that has sex toy ratings that are much more detailed than what you would find on a retail site. They also have cute little animated sex positions, some of which we have had fun trying.

    The stockroom website has an unbelievable number of vibrator choices, and it's my fav web store. They also have a bigger and better variety of anal and also nipple toys than most other online retailers.
     
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