I am looking for suggestions on sex toys for someone... here are the things to consider... She is in her 30s She use to use a lot of toys years ago but has had only one semi large realistic vibrating dildo that I hear she only used a couple times. She says she pretty much just kept the ones on her clit while she lay on her stomach and not really inserting. I am trying to spice things up a little so it will be a little bit of a surprise even though I have hinted towards this. She is sort of stand offish about anything new in the bed room. It can't be crazy expensive or too wild ( no shocker dp lol) Is iffy on receiving oral or "jabbing" at her with fingers. I have looked up all sorts of things on sites like adam and eve and on everything the reviews are all over the place and so is the quality and reliability. Just wondering if people had suggestions on what to try, their reviews,favorites, or things to stay away from.