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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Lover4You, Sep 24, 2012.

  1. Lover4You

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    So, the other day I posted about my husband being uncomfortable opening up about sex. Well, I suggested going to an erotic store where I could show him what I like. That way it wasn't pressure on him and if he decided to pitch in w some ideas, itd be a plus. Which he did!! Woohoo. It was great! He was a freaking chatter box about -I like this, let's do that- ect ect. Then we got talking on our way to the next place and he shared some of his fantasies! FINALLY! Got home and had some fantastic sex!! Was amazing!!

    Just wanted to share about our success. Cuz I'm super excited!!

    That is all.

    :)
     
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    Wow! thats great...that was a smooth move...great idea.
    sex is always super exciting...Keep up the good work!!!! game on:)
     
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    Congrats......you will have to share with us what kind if toys you bought....then which one you and him liked best:D
     
  4. sandwich

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    Yay!!! I'm not even getting any boring sex right now, but I can be happy for you!
     
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    hey LOVERFORYOU. Would you care to exchange his fantasies with us.....If not then I respect you keeping this private..........Glad for you, Im sort of slowly getting my wife to open up a little.....Maybe the book, fifty shades of grey may open her imagination
     
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    Congrats! Its always great to get some hot wild monkey sex...just can't remember the last time I got some...lol
     
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    Yes,but you have hot,sexual tension going on :p
    Maybe hot sex is in your future!

    Lover4You,that is great news :) :) :)
     
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    I don't think I will just yet since he is so sensitive about it, it'd be kinda lame to go post it all over the internet. I've never read that book. Hear good and bad about it. I know my husband liked that I was telling him this and that from my mouth. It made it more personal to him and since I went first, and I floored him w things I like, he wasn't so insecure about what he liked. Most of what I said was about me doing -favors- for him so I didn't put the pressure of expectations on him by saying -I want you to do all these things to me - . It was -I want to do these things to you -. Maybe keeping the pressure off will help. We had great success w it.
     
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    We ended up having sex 8x just last night. I feel like a poor kid that just got a pony for Christmas. Incredibly Excited for what comes next. Woooohoooo!!!
     
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    Shortly after my wife and I added full intercourse to our lovemaking we got copies of the books "Joy of Sex" and "More Joy of Sex". They may still be in print - it was VERY popular in the '70's, so you can probably still find copies if you look in the right places.

    We would pass the books back and forth under our pillows, with post-it notes marking interesting pages, or having short comments like "Let's try _ _ _ _ _ ", or "Not at all interested in pg xxx" or "This illustration looks fun", etc.

    With the ice broken like that, we could talk about the ideas - and learned a lot about each other.
     
  12. Barbwire

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    :eek Good lord girl, you're going to wear the old man out! Yeee haw! :phat
     
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    Now I want a pony for Christmas.
     
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    That sounds fun!! Ill have to try it.
     
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    Had sex 8 times?....just so I'm clear, ( I'm already jealous) , but is that ..you came 8 times? Or he fucked you 8 times? Or you stopped and started 8 different times? And that's 8 times over how many hours? ..and how long did each time last? .....the reason I'm asking is I'm feeling a little lazy here....I mean we have sex about that many times in a week....fucking 5 times in 24 hours was the most we've ever done and it seemed like a carnival ride....that never ended...I can't even imagine 8 .....
    Well, I guess I can imagine.....:D
     
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    Oh my bad. I came 8x but we had sex as in penetration 3x, and oral 3x. It was 6hours. Guess that doies change things. However I do remember a day when we had sex as in penetration 10x in a row. After that I had to stop him or I would have been in some pain the next day. But that was back when we were dating. Lol.

    We did decide to have a day dedicated entirely to sex. Can't wait!!!
     
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    I'm still jealous..:D
     
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    Oh cool! I have a pole and I love to learn tricks on it.There are lots of self help guides on youtube for learning techniques:)
    I'm self taught and it is how I learned nearly all my tricks.

    Did you get a static pole or one that spins?
    Mine spins and is bolted into the ceiling.
    Pole dancing is a good workout that's fun and makes you really strong.


    Here are two videos I really like on youtube...
    The girl doing the video has 4 kids but looks great and is self taught too.
    Some of her stuff is really informative about learning.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DV9hkblfy3E

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbDEMbSTDDI&list=UUup79MtZnWP_SCAHeVlmzdQ&index=32&feature=plcp
     
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    Oooh thank you!!! I'll check it out! Yep, it is the spin kind :)
     
  20. Barbwire

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    So, is your poontang in a sling yet?