Substance use

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  1. whybother

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    I'm sure there are older threads on this but I'm curious about people who are around currently.

    (I hope this is within the rules)

    Do you like to mix sex with:

    a) cigarettes
    b) alcohol
    c) marijuana
    d) hallucinogens
    c) cocaine
    d)harder drugs (ie meth, heroin)
    e) "downers"
    you get the idea.

    For the wife and I a glass of wine sometimes helps.
     
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    Sometimes the wife and I will have a couple of drinks. Don't like to have too much though.
     
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    The endorphins are more than enough for me :)
     
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  4. Sagittarius84

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    I'm a regular marijuana smoker, so definitely that. I've cut back on drinking quite a bit, but the gf likes to get me drunk every once in awhile, as my tongue tends to get used more, and my stamina goes up exponentially(basically I can fuck until sober).
     
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    I agree with xtacy4 ^^^^ :)

    For me, I don't like being "under the influence" of anything when it cums to Sex.
    I want to "feel" it & remember it.... ;)
     
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    1 in 5 times i have sex i probably have had a drink but not many. occasionally i'm drunk. But not very often. I never take recreational drugs or smoke.
     
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    A few drinks is as far I go. Don't like being completely drunk and trying to fuck.
    Used to smoke weed, it was ok during sex. Haven't smoked in almost ten years. And I don't miss it.
    I prefer having a clear mind.
     
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    Let me see..Was it 1 glass of wine or 2,No wait I drank them at a friends house,I opened the bottle and the last thing I remember I was opening my legs!!!!!:D
     
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    I try to have my system as clear of external influences (substances) as possible before sex. Largely this is because I've been through bad bouts with substance addiction/abuse and have also had medications that have negatively impacted me sexually.

    While most of that is part of the past now, I do still have to take medications that affect my performance (one of those nasty Lesser of Two Evils situations). However, both D and I have come to know my body's routine for when the high/low points are (note: all 24-hour cycle meds have peaks and valleys) and have gotten our sexual activity pattern down to a science when it comes to matching up with the low points (points of least detrimental impact). Fortunately they tend to coincide with when the two of us are "in the mood." :)

    Based off personal experience and word-of-mouth from others I would say that being "substance-free" is probably going to garner the best results when it comes to sexual encounters. Then again - I'm not a doctor, chemist, biologist, or sexologist. :p
     
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    You go girl.
     
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    Well I do like to drink but I do not drink just to do it for sex or enhancement . I am passed the bar working stage in my life where in drink so much I don't remember it.
    However the first time at a swingers party I definitely used alcohol to relax me a bit. I would have had a couple anyways but I was nervous and the rookie. ....but it worked out great!
     
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    My doc gave me a free trial of 5mg cialis. Pretty good stuff. I've had them forever. Just take them every now and then for fun.
    My doc leaned in and gave me the prescription and whispered take one and put on some porn when she's ready ;)
     
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    I smoke cigarettes, but those are usually enjoyed after sex, not during. (Unless it's a quick break in between rounds...)

    I enjoy drunk sex, but it's a once in awhile thing. Orgasms feel different, and it's the only time I can cum from certain positions. It may be psychological, but who knows.

    I haven't smoked weed in years, but orgasms while stoned were great as well.
     
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    Drinking gets me to talk and forget to smell the roses;) I drink after sex:D:D
     
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    Nothing.
     
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    Marijuana, if anything for me - heightens anticipation. Alcohol, or anything else, no thanks -
     
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    Glass of wine and a nice hit of good buds. Definitely turned down a few notches from when I used to snort coke off her tits and ass in my 20's
     
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